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Reply 1
kissing or anything more with another person- why, what have you done? or had done to you?
Reply 2
cinnamon_lips
What would you class as cheating in a year long relationship?
If i wouldnt do it in front of my BF or want him knowing then its cheating.
Reply 3
loser88
kissing or anything more with another person- why, what have you done? or had done to you?


wouldnt like to say

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Niaya
If i wouldnt do it in front of my BF or want him knowing then its cheating.


Good answer
Reply 4
cinnamon_lips
wouldnt like to say

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Good answer
why not its hard for any of us to offer advice if we dont know the full story and its not like were gonna judge you
Reply 5
i kissed one of my friends who at one point could have been more than that!
Reply 6
cinnamon_lips
i kissed one of my friends who at one point could have been more than that!
kissed in what way, i have a bf and still kiss some of my friends but not in a way that would be seen as cheating
Reply 7
erm passionatly, twice
Reply 8
if you have to ask a question about it, you've probably done it.
Reply 9
I see and i take it your worried about how your BF will react? to be honest it depends on the sort of person he is i've been out with guys who would care and guys who would glare at any of my males friends who he saw hug me
Reply 10
_EMMA_
if you have to ask a question about it, you've probably done it.

how do you mean, the thing is ive kissed girls just as passionatly and my bf wasnt bothered, i dont see the difference
Reply 11
cinnamon_lips
how do you mean, the thing is ive kissed girls just as passionatly and my bf wasnt bothered, i dont see the difference
some guys dont seem to think it counts if you kiss another girl ( i think it does) you really need to talk to your BF about this, Me and my Bf dicussed flirting with other people before we started going out and now we both know where we stand
Reply 12
Niaya
some guys dont seem to think it counts if you kiss another girl ( i think it does) you really need to talk to your BF about this, Me and my Bf dicussed flirting with other people before we started going out and now we both know where we stand


we've just been through a really rough patch (this kiss was during the rough patch)though and we are trying to make it work, i think this will spoil things, i want to at least try HELP!
Reply 13
cinnamon_lips
we've just been through a really rough patch (this kiss was during the rough patch)though and we are trying to make it work, i think this will spoil things, i want to at least try HELP!
when you say rought patch did you to have a "break" because if you did then i would just forget about it and move on and make sure it odesnt happen again theres no point in hurting him, its up to you if you choose to tell him or not. I cant say because I dont know both of you
I would class, kissing and anything more than that as cheating
Reply 15
Niaya
when you say rought patch did you to have a "break" because if you did then i would just forget about it and move on and make sure it odesnt happen again theres no point in hurting him, its up to you if you choose to tell him or not. I cant say because I dont know both of you

thankyou sugar
Reply 16
cinnamon_lips
thankyou sugar
no problem, i hope it all works out for you pm me if you wanna talk bout stuff :smile:
Reply 17
Captain Chaos
I think kissing is where you cross the line. I flirt with other women, but not in front of my girlfriend, but if she knew about it, she'd be bloody horrified. I'm sure she does the same though, it's about a bit of give and take really.

I'm not sure if you should tell your bf about that or not though :frown:
If you know she would be horrified then why do you do it thats not fair, and your just saying that your sure she does the same so you can feel less guilty. you shouldnt keep doing things that would hurt her if she found out about them, if you want to be with her then you should stop flirting with other people.
I think that kissing anybody else besides your boyfriend would be cheating.
I think it's cheating if you do anything from kissing and above with another person *with intent*. So, I'd disregard a drunken kiss that didn't lead anywhere, if the people had no emotional involvement. However if someone had previously thought about kissing the person, then acted upon it, then it would be cheating.
Flirting is fine unless they actually want to get together - there's no point in going out with someone if you want other people and will cheat.