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Reply 1
Leave them?
Reply 2
i would forgive both of them. but i would be wary to trust my partner so i might break up with him , though i would pray for the strength not to have hard feelings towards either of them
Reply 3
Forgvie if possible......especially if the :fight: girl he cheated on is your best mate
Reply 4
If I caught my gf cheating I would 100% finish it, cant exactly do much else but the guy may get a punch.
i dont even have to think hypothetically about this question....my ex boyfriend cheated on me when he went on an all boys holiday in corfu. i knew something was wrong when he came back and was really attentive and over the top affectionate, which was something he hadnt been for the 9 months we had been together. also looking back now i could see signs that his friends were trying to let me know what he had been up to. 2 weeks after he had come back he phoned me just hours before my A level exams and told me.... the ******! because im a strong person i just hung up and went in and did my exam.....as soon as it was over i cried. he beged me to take him back saying he felt lonely one night and it was offered to him on a plate. hes a good looking lad and i was always having to fend girls off him, just seems that night he couldnt resist. i couldnt forgive him, not only for the cheating but also for the timing of telling me as if he was intentionally trying to **** up my exams. oh well its all in the past and i can honestly say im no longer bitter about it.
Reply 6
If I actually walked in on someone cheating on me, I'd either not care or start cracking skulls open, depeing on my mood.
Leave her - no doubt in my mind...It is unforgiveable
Reply 8
If I actually saw them? Probably hit him in the balls and slap her.
And I'd break up with someone who cheated on me, full stop.
Reply 9
Break up with them?
What else can you do, kill them?
I don't know what I'd do - it's completely unthinkable! I know he wouldn't in a million years though.
Reply 11
I don't know what I'd do - it's completely unthinkable! I know he wouldn't in a million years though.

You can never know for 100%.
Reply 12
totally cut off all contact from him, it's pointless getting mad just never talk to him again
jason01
You can never know for 100%.


I do. I know there is a very, very, very slim chance he might start fancying someone else, but I am 100% sure he wouldn't cheat on me even then - he'd break it off with me before he got physical with the other girl.
i did leave
Reply 15
I do. I know there is a very, very, very slim chance he might start fancying someone else, but I am 100% sure he wouldn't cheat on me even then - he'd break it off with me before he got physical with the other girl.


Feels good when you can fully trust your partner.
Reply 16
:d hehe
jason01
Feels good when you can fully trust your partner.


Yes, it's wonderful. :biggrin: :love:
I'd cry, ask for a reason why, and end things - although my heart would be broken into a million pieces. :frown:
Reply 19
I just couldn't carry it on. Once I've been betrayed that's it - if they turn out not to be the person I thought they were, the whole basis of the relationship would fall apart, and especially in a long-term relationship I couldn't adjust to any changes in how I view them.