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what would you do if you caught your partner cheating

rg2005

just wondering what people think of this

Reply 1

scutt

1

Leave them?

Reply 2

shinytoy

18

i would forgive both of them. but i would be wary to trust my partner so i might break up with him , though i would pray for the strength not to have hard feelings towards either of them

Reply 3

Mellanie

1

Forgvie if possible......especially if the :fight:

girl he cheated on is your best mate

Reply 4

Mark_UK

If I caught my gf cheating I would 100% finish it, cant exactly do much else but the guy may get a punch.

Reply 5

Love_Hearts

9

i dont even have to think hypothetically about this question....my ex boyfriend cheated on me when he went on an all boys holiday in corfu. i knew something was wrong when he came back and was really attentive and over the top affectionate, which was something he hadnt been for the 9 months we had been together. also looking back now i could see signs that his friends were trying to let me know what he had been up to. 2 weeks after he had come back he phoned me just hours before my A level exams and told me.... the ******! because im a strong person i just hung up and went in and did my exam.....as soon as it was over i cried. he beged me to take him back saying he felt lonely one night and it was offered to him on a plate. hes a good looking lad and i was always having to fend girls off him, just seems that night he couldnt resist. i couldnt forgive him, not only for the cheating but also for the timing of telling me as if he was intentionally trying to **** up my exams. oh well its all in the past and i can honestly say im no longer bitter about it.

Reply 6

Wineblood

If I actually walked in on someone cheating on me, I'd either not care or start cracking skulls open, depeing on my mood.

Reply 7

bananas1234

13

Leave her - no doubt in my mind...It is unforgiveable

Reply 8

Kate.

15

If I actually saw them? Probably hit him in the balls and slap her.
And I'd break up with someone who cheated on me, full stop.

Reply 9

jason01

2

Break up with them?
What else can you do, kill them?

Reply 10

FrisbeeFan

10

I don't know what I'd do - it's completely unthinkable! I know he wouldn't in a million years though.

Reply 11

jason01

2

I don't know what I'd do - it's completely unthinkable! I know he wouldn't in a million years though.

You can never know for 100%.

Reply 12

Anything

totally cut off all contact from him, it's pointless getting mad just never talk to him again

Reply 13

FrisbeeFan

10

jason01

You can never know for 100%.

I do. I know there is a very, very, very slim chance he might start fancying someone else, but I am 100% sure he wouldn't cheat on me even then - he'd break it off with me before he got physical with the other girl.

Reply 14

CherryGarcia

1

i did leave

Reply 15

jason01

2

I do. I know there is a very, very, very slim chance he might start fancying someone else, but I am 100% sure he wouldn't cheat on me even then - he'd break it off with me before he got physical with the other girl.

Feels good when you can fully trust your partner.

Reply 16

jason01

2

:d hehe

Reply 17

FrisbeeFan

10

jason01

Feels good when you can fully trust your partner.

Yes, it's wonderful. :biggrin:

Reply 18

mypaperheart

16

I'd cry, ask for a reason why, and end things - although my heart would be broken into a million pieces. :frown:

Reply 19

pikaboo

13

I just couldn't carry it on. Once I've been betrayed that's it - if they turn out not to be the person I thought they were, the whole basis of the relationship would fall apart, and especially in a long-term relationship I couldn't adjust to any changes in how I view them.

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