What will you be doing over the Easter break? >>

Confused...girl related

Right well basically i like this girl, and we get on well.

Im pretty sure she knows i like her, thx to my mates on a night out :P anyways, heard a while ago she kinda likes me, bt then just left it for a while. At a party at the weekend, i got the impression it was kinda no, bt then spoke to her brother and apparently she finds me really interesting and wants to get to know me better. Anyway was then told to jus take it slow n get to know her more so fair enough.
Anyway then i got told by 1 of her quite close mates that has known her for 6 years who doesnt go to our school that she DOES like me. Now i dunno bt after saturday i was left thinking otherwise. Now i dunno if im just mistrusting bt id tend not to trust the person who said she likes me, as i dont really know her, and she wudnt tell me how she knew. She was just like girls just know. However it was weird that she didnt know i liked her till i mentioned it
She has since saturday made an effort to come sit with us and stuff but im nt sure if she does like me or not, def not gonna do anything before i know....

any help lol

Reply 1

Segat1

just give her a big wet sloppy kiss. then see how she reacts. then you'll know

Reply 2

Ninja32

HAHA thats some odd advice....bt lets face it m8, i kinda like this 1, even if she did like me...big wet sloppy kiss would kinda freak her out

i didnt mention shes realllllllllllllllllllllllly shy

i mean really

Reply 3

Wineblood

segat1

just give her a big wet sloppy kiss. then see how she reacts. then you'll know

I don't know what's funnier, that "advice" or your avatar.

Reply 4

Lirael Abhorsen

sounds like her brother probably knows what he's on about.. and if she's really shy follow his advice don't come on too strong but be friendly and interested. either way you won't make a fool of yourself or scare her off..

Reply 5

jason01

Just talk to her and get to know her, she will eventually get used to you.

Reply 6

Ninja32

cheers for the advice so far

Reply 7

Boy1

From my experiences with women i would say the best thing you can do is tell her you like her. Maybe not in so many words but make it clear and not too ambiguous just so she knows how you feel. If you have this 'does she, doesn't she' thing going on you also need to sit down and go through in your head all the things that makes you think she does and all the things that makes you thing she doesn't and figure out if your reading far too much into things or that there is an actual basis for you having the suspicion.

If you do tell her and it turns out that she just wants to be friends accept that and what ever you do don't be put off by it or act strangely around her and trust me within days things will feel normal again. If you avoid her because of it then it will feel odd. But thats worst case scenario.

Just to share my experience with you, i had a good friend in college who i really liked and spent a lot of time with but i didn't know how to tell her i liked her and if she liked me or not so i didn't say anything until it was too late. She moved to America where she lives with her mum now and so i threw away any chance i had of being with her. We still talk occasionally 3 years on and have talked about me liking her and i found out she did like me and wanted to go out with me but was waiting for me to say something.

In the end you have to decide what the best course of action is but if that doesn't make you want to say something to her i don't know what will!

The biggest regrets in your life will be the things you didn't do

Reply 8

Ceri327

sounds to me like everyone is telling u about her. my advice is not to really let that cloud ur judgement jus talk to her a bit more. if she's shy jus chat loads and im sure then ull get more of an impression fro her not other people

cheers 4 advice

It sounds to me like she does fancy you. You should just ask her.

Reply 11

Ninja32

well update, like i posted she already knows i like her, thx to mates n her bro talk a lot so altho i havent said to her...i like u. Its been obvious from comments from friends, and ive shown an interest in her.

Anyway just been talking a lot to her and we seem to get on really well, but its just getting into the situation where we CAN just sit and talk, its kinda difficult.

Ive spoken to her m8 now and i believe that she does like me. Her mate said she hides it well, and i can now see that she really does.

Shes quite serious and pretty busy, so its difficult to just take time out with her. Her friend told me to b really flirty with her, which ya know i will do its just hard when im surrounded by mates making stupid comments, or shes sitting with her friends.

i dont really know what im posting here for, guess i just need some backing up...does she like me and any advice on wat next

obv asking her to do something sometime would be the obvious next step..its nt as simple as that.

Reply 12

sahsum

Just tell her. worst thing that can happen is that she never talks to you again, in which case shes not worth it anyway. All this beating about the bush is so boring and tiresome just go for it!!