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the case of the ex

this is all over msn
ok so one of my ex bfs opened up to me about their personal life and finally explained to me why he couldnt commit to me at the time and how hes learning to deal with his trust issues bla bla bla.....
then we made up and its all ok.
then he turns around and says "That aside, you've got a new fella anyway, no need to worry bout the past"

what on earth does that mean?
at first i thought it was just an end to the conversation but i never told him im seeing someone, he might have seen me with him.
im really confused whether he still likes me or not.
i really dont know what to think?
any opinions?
Reply 1
do u still like him or not ? Looks like u might still do. He's obviously throwing the bait... :rolleyes:
Reply 2
r_raghav11
do u still like him or not ? Looks like u might still do. He's obviously throwing the bait... :rolleyes:

well yea i like him alot when i really shouldnt, got a soft spot for him.
throwing the bait? :confused:
Reply 3
throwing the bait - as in testing the waters. But he apparently wanted to know what was going on with u. the 'anyways' is like a resignment to the fact that ur not single anymore, and he is now a changed person and maybe u might be interested in getting back. Either that or he was being cocky.
Reply 4
r_raghav11
throwing the bait - as in testing the waters. But he apparently wanted to know what was going on with u. the 'anyways' is like a resignment to the fact that ur not single anymore, and he is now a changed person and maybe u might be interested in getting back. Either that or he was being cocky.

i swear guys should have their own dictionary!
Reply 5
if we do - it might just have a few pages. for girls...there will be vol.1, vol.2 and so on!! :wink:
Reply 6
r_raghav11
if we do - it might just have a few pages. for girls...there will be vol.1, vol.2 and so on!! :wink:

us girls are lovely :redface: :biggrin:

anyway, anyone else have any other opinions?
Reply 7
kriztinae
"That aside, you've got a new fella anyway, no need to worry bout the past"


My rough translation:

"Well, no matter how we both just talked about feeling, you've moved on, and while that bothers me and I wish you hadn't, I'm going to try to be flippant about it and make it seem like it doesn't matter but it'll backfire and just make me seem regretful and nostalgic"

Something like that I'd say.
Reply 8
KingLeigh
My rough translation:

"Well, no matter how we both just talked about feeling, you've moved on, and while that bothers me and I wish you hadn't, I'm going to try to be flippant about it and make it seem like it doesn't matter but it'll backfire and just make me seem regretful and nostalgic"

Something like that I'd say.

ha
thats quite funny but i would say thats a bit extreme.... meh i dunno what to think