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    There's this boy that goes to my college. He went to the college I went to last year and I had a crush on him so it was a bit weird to see that he goes to the same college as me again.
    He's really tall and good-looking, and I've spoken to him twice on Facebook about 7 months ago. He also asked someone for my number but he didn't end up texting me for whatever reason.
    A boy that was in my class at college last year went to school with him and said he's really kind.
    From looking at his Facebook page, he seems quite popular and always goes to parties and stuff. He's friends with this girl who I was friends with in primary school. A relative of his was in the same hospital ward of a relative of mine last year, which I think is a bit strange.
    He always smiles at me when he sees me, even before I look at him, although he hasn't acknowledged me recently.
    I was walking back from the shop today and I saw him jogging past my house so he must live near me too. He looked at me but I quickly looked away because I looked scruffy (no make-up on, messy hair).

    I don't know what to do about it. This probably sounds sad because I don't even talk to him. But I'm scared that if I do talk to him he'll ignore me or be rude.
    Any advice?
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    Okay, from reading your post it seems like you really like the guy as you have checked his Facebook out and you keep meeting in strange places. So you like the guy but just don't want to make the first move, right?

    But what harm would it be to speak to him on Facebook again or give him a random text? It may not lead anywhere but it maybe lead to great things!! You never know.

    He maybe thinking the exact same to you, maybe running past your house deliberately. I would just give him a quick message and see what happens... good luck!
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    (Original post by bigdave)
    Okay, from reading your post it seems like you really like the guy as you have checked his Facebook out and you keep meeting in strange places. So you like the guy but just don't want to make the first move, right?

    But what harm would it be to speak to him on Facebook again or give him a random text? It may not lead anywhere but it maybe lead to great things!! You never know.

    He maybe thinking the exact same to you, maybe running past your house deliberately. I would just give him a quick message and see what happens... good luck!
    That's pretty much what I would advise too, well put BigDave :P I'm liking some of your posts, you're doing my job for me
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    (Original post by WalkerPassingby)
    That's pretty much what I would advise too, well put BigDave :P I'm liking some of your posts, you're doing my job for me
    Woo... well I am feeling as my love life is so terrible and no hope of improving then I might as well help some other people!

    P.S. Where is the positive rep?
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    Just speak to him, text, facebook, whatever..

    I've just got back from Thailand before starting Uni, everyone there is so open and friendly, girls will approach you and just get talking about anything and everything. Over here it's back to normal, people finding it hard to speak to strangers and generally socialise beyond their group of friends.

    How many times do you see someone and totally blank each other, make a judgement of them then couple weeks later you are really good friends? People should just smile, say Hi, talk to each other and generally be more open in my opinion, life's too short.
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    (Original post by bigdave)
    Woo... well I am feeling as my love life is so terrible and no hope of improving then I might as well help some other people!

    P.S. Where is the positive rep?
    lol, same here I guess, though it's my fault, and choice these days!
    You are henceforth my TSR doppelganger :P
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    (Original post by Birchinio)
    Just speak to him, text, facebook, whatever..

    I've just got back from Thailand before starting Uni, everyone there is so open and friendly, girls will approach you and just get talking about anything and everything. Over here it's back to normal, people finding it hard to speak to strangers and generally socialise beyond their group of friends.

    How many times do you see someone and totally blank each other, make a judgement of them then couple weeks later you are really good friends? People should just smile, say Hi, talk to each other and generally be more open in my opinion, life's too short.
    I think it's a British thing that's came about, when I was in Madrid albeit the language barrier everyone was so much friendlier and easier going, here it's all stress.
    Needless to say I'm moving out to Australia soon :P
 
 
 
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