I'm a virgin. Is this normal? When will it stop hurting? If fingering hurts this much I'm dreading sex!?
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Fingering is the most painful thing ever watch
- Thread Starter
- 28-09-2011 00:46
- 28-09-2011 04:19
Sex, of any kind, including fingering, shouldn't hurt. When you've been having manual sex, have you been very aroused and relaxed, used lots of lube, and made sure you feel completely ready for this?
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- 28-09-2011 16:36
- 28-09-2011 18:50
Maybe he's being too rough? Ask him (well tell him) to be a bit gentler and start off slowly. The first time I ever got fingered hurt like hell, so I don't think it's abnormal.
- 12-10-2011 02:03
It shouldn't hurt at all, make him put his finger in slowly before entering... or just rub around the area before, and wait for you to get aroused/turned on
- 12-10-2011 13:58
Tell him to be more gentle and to do it slower, and obviously make sure you're wet enough first. It's not abnormal, probably just because you're really "tight" having never done it before (as most if not all virgins/people with not much sexual experience are). First time someone did it to me it really hurt too.