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    I fancy my friend. And i really want to tell him because I really want more than just a friendship.
    I don't know how to work out if he may or may not like me. Because i'm worried if I ask him/tell him, it'll totally ruin our friendship and he'll never talk to me again.

    I know that's a tad extravagant but i don't know!
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    The best thing to do is to work up the courage to ask him out, and to be clear that you're not going to the cinema or wherever it might be as friends.

    You'll never find out whether he likes you or not unless you flat out ask him, and I would not do that. Be proactive!
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    (Original post by marshey)
    The best thing to do is to work up the courage to ask him out, and to be clear that you're not going to the cinema or wherever it might be as friends.

    You'll never find out whether he likes you or not unless you flat out ask him, and I would not do that. Be proactive!
    so in your opinion, he wouldn't stop talking to me? haha.
    thanks for replying
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    (Original post by monicaa)
    so in your opinion, he wouldn't stop talking to me? haha.
    thanks for replying
    I'd say there's a good chance if you ask him out and he doesn't feel the same way then your friendship will slowly fall apart. But would you be prepared to stay just friends with this guy knowing he will most likely get with other girls in the future?

    If you're not comfortable with that then the friendship won't last even if you do nothing. Ask him out, he'll be flattered I'm sure.
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    At the end of the day, you can spend hours analysing his behaviour, over-thinking everything he says to you in attempt to work out whether or not he likes you, but you're never going to know for sure unless you tell him. Of course it's scary, but it's got to be better than always wondering "what if...". If he doesn't feel the same then you need to do everything you can not to let it affect your friendship. He may be a little different with you at first, but so long as you continue to act normally, I'm sure he will too!
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    i did it! i text him asking him "how do you feel about me"... now to wait for the reply.. if he does!
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    he hasn't replied. normally he does. but i'm trying not to panic aha i'll just give him time to comprehend it xD
 
 
 
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