Is she interested? Help - a little confused!

Hi,

Last night i was watching a film with one of my flatmates. Normally we would be sitting on my bed watching it, but last night we were lying down. When the film ended i turned around to face her and we started talking.

At one point she asked me if i was going out with another girl, who in actual fact is just a close friend... and of course i said no. We then moved a lot closer and would probably have kissed if it hadnt been for some people coming very loudly downstairs.

We were together for several more hours, during which she asked me quite a bit about my past relationships. She also suggested that we went out for a drink tonight.

Its a little scary, as we are really good friends - and we live in the same flat, but since xmas we have been much much closer. Do you think she is interested or am I reading the signs wrongly?

I have posted anonymously because some of my friends and flatmates use TSR.

Reply 1

Segat1

I think it sounds lovely. Just take it very slowly, and don't rush anything. You're lucky you got to be friends first, I am insanely jealous!

Reply 2

Clarence

Sounds like she's interested. Get in there before someone else does!!!

xxx

Reply 3

SchoenesLeben

Yeah, It really sounds positive, but be careful not to ruin the friendship! Make sure to be sure what YOU want!

Reply 4

jbcubed3

Signs do look strong - go for a drink, hint a little at what you think/feel but just a little - it's a good situation, she seems a great friend so you're bound to have a good time regardless of the outcome!

Good luck :smile:

Reply 5

miss_buttercup

yea sounds like she likes you, def take it slow tho so that if u decide its not right ul still have ur friendship. x

Reply 6

Sigh - plans for our drink tonight went a little wrong, as another of our housemats ended up joining us... oh well... maybe tomorrow.

Reply 7

Objet trouvé

I don't know, I tend to be quite affectionate with my male friends, and vice versa. Sometimes the signs get interpreted wrongly, for example, you can snuggle up to one on the sofa and suddenly they'll think that you want to be picking out furniture with them. I find that you can often have "moments" which at the time feel nice, but when the rational, logical part of the brain takes over, you realise that taking it further is not an option. I'd take it slowly if I were you and not make any sudden moves.

Reply 8

I guess you could be right. Circumstances in the last couple of days have led to us both being really busy doing separate things, so we havent had much time to talk.

Last night she confused me a bit by knocking on my door (i was in my room with a couple of other people), then not coming in when i shouted "come in". She then went into her room, signed onto MSN, and i asked her why she hadn't come in - she said she realised she couldnt think of anything to say!!!

Reply 9

Sheen

i'd say she likes you from what youve said but id go out with her for a drink like she suggested and see how goes.

Reply 10

Jack0

She's given you loads of indicators of interest and I think you better act upon them otherwise she'll give up. Ask her out for lunch or for a coffee or something - just so you can be alone together and see how it goes. Or simply try and get her on her own in your house.

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