Guys: what do you find attractive in a girl/lady/woman?

OP

i just don't understand what would make someone be attracted and then all of a sudden turn them off...

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Tomstar42

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Hm, looks wise I guess cute, nice eyes, nice hair. If a girl smells nice it's always a bonus (I will not go near a girl that has BO or just generally smells bad).

Non physical things would be; good sense of humor, being generally a nice person, easy to talk to and be around and of course, similar interests.

Reply 5

hamix

attraction is holistic. People change, maybe he just didn't fancy you again. That doesn't mean you are deficient in any way, how can it?

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j2s0n

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My perfect girl would be the body of a girl with the mind of a boy.

Reply 7

tote

eyes and lips

:borat:

Reply 8

OP

Original post by j2s0n

My perfect girl would be the body of a girl with the mind of a boy.

howd you mean?

Reply 9

Original post by Anonymous

howd you mean?

Is it that difficult? Body of a hotty, mind of sex obsessed nutter.

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OP

actually he broke up with me but it was a very understanding break up i'd say even though i never really understood but i figured back off to uni throw myself into that! it just comes as news to me is all and apparently he is seeing someone else already after less than a month of such a long term relationship! i begin to think rebound but then i think don't be stupid he finished you...

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funsize17

Original post by PraxxtorCruel

Is it that difficult? Body of a hotty, mind of sex obsessed nutter.

kinda sounds like me tbh lmao

Reply 12

It could be a simple case of have you changed your make up styles, gone in to totally different type of clothing, changed your hair style? I have to admit it happened to me with a girl once.

(edited 12 years ago)

Reply 13

Original post by funsize17

kinda sounds like me tbh lmao

Your guy must be proud n happy.

Reply 14

funsize17

Original post by PraxxtorCruel

Your guy must be proud n happy.

my guy broke up with me recently too...after 3 years :O

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Original post by funsize17

my guy broke up with me recently too...after 3 years :O

Don't tell me, same reason as OP?

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OP

Original post by PraxxtorCruel

It could be a simple case of have you changed your make up styles, gone in to totally different type of clothing, changed your hair style? I have to admit it happened to me with a girl once.

realli? i guess i have gained a few lbs since we first met but i was 15 at the time...my hair style hasn't realli changed much at all maybe a little bit longer and lighter although it has been all sorts of things during our relationship! how did it happen? she change her hair?

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Original post by Anonymous

realli? i guess i have gained a few lbs since we first met but i was 15 at the time...my hair style hasn't realli changed much at all maybe a little bit longer and lighter although it has been all sorts of things during our relationship! how did it happen? she change her hair?

Yeah on the spot t'was the hair. Her previous hair style to that complimented her face so well, but when she decided to change it, it just looked so so I can't really describe it. But it somehow put me of. Luckily we weren't that deep into a relationship was more of a flirt here and there but we did like each other more than friends but that quickly ended with the new hair do.

(edited 12 years ago)

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funsize17

Original post by PraxxtorCruel

Don't tell me, same reason as OP?

He didn't actually give a proper reason if i'm honest! He put me through hell for a week after telling me he was unsure he wanted to be with me before he actually broke up with me so i was quite relieved in a sense but he is shallow so yes i suspect he no longer found me attractive!

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