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Had sex with my friend, now what? I'm confused watch

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    I had sex with my close friend (guy) twice and i'm confused about it. I don't want our friendship to change. He is fine by it, but I don't know how i feel about it. I don't want a relationship with him. I don't want us to be f**** buddies either.

    Am i supposed to act like it didn't happen? It's not normal. It's not what good friends do. We're both acting normal with each other the next day, but i'm a little worried. Theres a split second where i feel used, but because he is being normal with me, I don't know what to think.

    What if he starts to think of me as less of a friend, what if i do?

    Why have sex with him in the first place then if it has caused doubts in your friendship? :rolleyes:

    Just tell him straight that you don't want to become **** buddies, but you still enjoyed having sex with him.

    But eventually one of you will want more out of the friendship.
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