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dilemma - quick please

sorry for using anonymous i just know that one of the people involved in this threads reads these boards!!

i dont know what to do. Tomorow im supposed to be staying over my boyfriends house, been planned for a week. i havnt seen him since last weekend + we have both had pretty heavy weeks, exams illness at stuff, if i dont see him tomorow it'l be another week at least till i see him again. The problem is my friend is having a few problems and asked to stay of mmine tomorow if im not staying over my boyfs? do i ditch my boyf or b a bad friend. eeek!!!!
Reply 1
can't you arrange for your friend to come over saturday night instead? then you get the best of both worlds.. and i'm sure she would understand if you had had this thing planned with your boyfriend for a week..
Why don't you talk to your boyfriend about it. Friends are worth the world, and ergo he should understand if your friend needs you.
Reply 3
well maybe she wants to see her boyfriend too.. especially if it is going to be another week before they see each other again.
Reply 4
yes but the thing isn't my boyfriend as he would understand. I really want to see him as it is the only time for awhile we can be properly together etc, but i think i am being selfish
Reply 5
no you aren't. if you can give your friend some time on saturday then how are you being selfish? you are keeping both parties happy, and you get to see your boyfriend and help your friend, which makes you happy.

problem solved :smile:
Reply 6
Thankyou very much, stil slightly unsure as dont want to let my friend down especialy when things are not good for her. Its my aim to cheer her up saturday though
Reply 7
Personally I wouldnt let your bf down if its been aranged all week, tell ur friend that and say you can see her another day.