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Women trouble!

If a woman is annoyed at you for trying to move too fast when lying in bed with her (not having sex, just sleeping), what should one do?

Should I give her space? ask her what i should do? What?

She is older than me so i thought she would be the experienced one, but it seems she is quite shy and my efforts of foreplay are not appreciated. I apologised and aid it won't happen again but things have been rough for a bit and i dont like it. What can i do to make it up to her?

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Reply 1

warranty-ideal

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Giver her time. Intimacy comes naturally with trust... or it should...

Reply 2

TOD100

but i have only known her a week or two, i think there was an attraction, and ive just grown to really like her personality...

Should i leave her alone until she talks to me?

Reply 3

fragreaper

Giver her time. Intimacy comes naturally with trust... or it should...

but i have only known her a week or two, i think there was an attraction, and ive just grown to really like her personality...

Should i leave her alone until she talks to me?

Reply 4

lovelee-jublee

12

Ask her about it, and see what her feelings are on the matter. Ask her if she thinks you're going too fast, or ask her what sort of things she would like to do.

Reply 5

miss_buttercup

by all means talk to her and mayb take her somewhere like the cinema so she be relaxed in your presence. As fragreaper said intimacy comes with trust and usually trust comes with time, so give your relationship more time before you try again. x

Reply 6

Also there is another guy whos apparently all over her, but i thought they were just friends as she told me she wasn't atttracted to him. but he likes her.

im worried that he will creep in there while im in the dog house.

Reply 7

miss_buttercup

by all means talk to her and mayb take her somewhere like the cinema so she be relaxed in your presence. As fragreaper said intimacy comes with trust and usually trust comes with time, so give your relationship more time before you try again. x

but it wasnt really a relationship at the start, but i want it to become one now.

We just met and I spent the night in her room just kissing cuddling on her bed then fell asleep with her. next night i tried to get her bra off, but the way she told me to stop doing it gave me the impression she wanted me to carry on (sounds stupid but thats the vibe i got)

Reply 8

TOD100

miss_buttercup

by all means talk to her and mayb take her somewhere like the cinema so she be relaxed in your presence. As fragreaper said intimacy comes with trust and usually trust comes with time, so give your relationship more time before you try again. x

and i dont think she will want to go to cinema A) because she is in a mood with me and B) cos its me - the pervert!

Reply 9

i dont think she would go to the cinema because A) its with me and B) she doesnt really like it. she is more of a clubber

Reply 10

lovelee-jublee

12

Anonymous

but it wasnt really a relationship at the start, but i want it to become one now.

We just met and I spent the night in her room just kissing cuddling on her bed then fell asleep with her. next night i tried to get her bra off, but the way she told me to stop doing it gave me the impression she wanted me to carry on (sounds stupid but thats the vibe i got)

You need to ask her what her intentions are. If she doesn't want you to do it at all then she's leading you on and you're wasting your time. But she may just want to wait. But you should talk to her to find out more.

Reply 11

lil_lee

You need to ask her what her intentions are. If she doesn't want you to do it at all then she's leading you on and you're wasting your time. But she may just want to wait. But you should talk to her to find out more.

how would you phrase that in a text? (she is atwork and this is killing me)

accusing her of leading me on will surely offendher moreright?

Reply 12

warranty-ideal

12

You're going way too fast matey... I've gone out with women for several months and not had *ANY* physical intimacy... it was deeper than that.
Sounds to me like you're looking for an easy shag...I get the impression that isnt what this girl wants....

Reply 13

fragreaper

You're going way too fast matey... I've gone out with women for several months and not had *ANY* physical intimacy... it was deeper than that.
Sounds to me like you're looking for an easy shag...I get the impression that isnt what this girl wants....

thats whatimean it startedoff as just physical for both of us butthen i am gettingto like her. i like her too much to loose her overa quick shag

why kiss a dude and lead him on and then go in such a badmood i dont understand!

Reply 14

warranty-ideal

12

If you like her... give her time :smile:

Find other less primal ways to spend time together....

Reply 15

Dude

14

Anonymous

why kiss a dude and lead him on and then go in such a badmood i dont understand!

Welcome to the world of women. They work in mysterious ways.

I reckon there should be a course on "How Girls Brains Work", it would be way more useful then Key Skills.

Reply 16

Dude

Welcome to the world of women. They work in mysterious ways.

I reckon there should be a course on "How Girls Brains Work", it would be way more useful then Key Skills.

lol goodplan

Reply 17

warranty-ideal

12

Dude

Welcome to the world of women. They work in mysterious ways.

I reckon there should be a course on "How Girls Brains Work", it would be way more useful then Key Skills.

But who would teach it...? women...?
I can see how that would go:

Pupil: "How do i do question three miss?"
Teacher: "If you don't know I'm not going to tell you! *storms out*"

Reply 18

TOD100

fragreaper

If you like her... give her time :smile:

Find other less primal ways to spend time together....

suggestions? you cant reallyspend time in a club as itsnotromanticenough,

Reply 19

Dude

14

fragreaper

But who would teach it...? women...?
I can see how that would go:

Pupil: "How do i do question three miss?"
Teacher: "If you don't know I'm not going to tell you! *storms out*"

No, Mel Gibson would.

Because he got the power to hear womens thoughts.

Women trouble!

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