The Student Room Group

Confusion

Hi basically my bf dumped me a month ago and even though things are still weird between us, when I'm back in town we end up kissing etc and he says hes confused, hes pretty much over me. He really likes this other girl who now has a bf so hes upset over that. I still love him and think the world of him, this guy has asked me out who I kinda know a bit and hes really sweet etc. I dont know if I should go out for drink with him etc as he clearly thinks its a date and I still love my ex. would this be unfair to the bloke or would it help me get over the ex :confused:
Please help!
Reply 1
I think if your ex is moving on you should too, go out with this new guy and see how you get on, give him a chance. Good luck :smile:
I'd agree, I know how you feel, but what's better to help move on than other guy? Hehe! And even if you go out for a drink with him and then decide you're not really into him then that's ok. At least give yourself that choice :biggrin:

Good luck!
Reply 3
I guess you're right, it probably would help. I just feel so depressed because my ex was first proper bf I had and same for him, we experienced everything to gether and it's horrible knowing that won't happen again :frown:
Wouldn't it be a rebound thing?
Reply 5
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Hi basically my bf dumped me a month ago and even though things are still weird between us, when I'm back in town we end up kissing etc and he says hes confused, hes pretty much over me. He really likes this other girl who now has a bf so hes upset over that. I still love him and think the world of him, this guy has asked me out who I kinda know a bit and hes really sweet etc. I dont know if I should go out for drink with him etc as he clearly thinks its a date and I still love my ex. would this be unfair to the bloke or would it help me get over the ex :confused:
Please help!



Sounds like your ex has got it all his way at the moment. He know longer has the hasstles of a relationship yet can have you whenever he wants. You should put your foot down.