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Hurts when i think about sex....

okay...I'll try not be too crude...but basically...i'm a girl and it hurts when i think about.......well....sensual stuff.... :confused:

does anyone know why?? thanks

Reply 1

tbm

13

What do you mean by hurts? Do you mean physically or mentally?

Reply 2

.Em.

What do you mean by hurts? Do you mean physically or mentally?

physically....

Reply 3

tbm

13

What sort of pain do you get, like a throbbing pain or an ache, or just an uncomfortable feeling? Have you seen a doctor at all?

Reply 4

.Em.

What sort of pain do you get, like a throbbing pain or an ache, or just an uncomfortable feeling? Have you seen a doctor at all?

its like...throbbing....no i'm to embarrased to see a doc!!! :redface:

Reply 5

tbm

13

Throbbing in your 'private' area is normal when you think about sex, its just your body's way of telling you that you are turned on, you shouldnt really be experiencing pain though, if you are worried then you should get it checked out.

Reply 6

lovelee-jublee

12

If it's hurting you should see a doctor, because I don't think that it's normal for it to be hurting!!!

could be vaginismus

As far as I can tell from what has been mentioned the throbbing is caused by an increase in blood flow and heart rate (the extra oxygen needed for sex basically). If there is pain it might be a problem with the veins there...

Reply 9

EmmaBurton

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Maybe better to just think about something else then?

Reply 10

pumpkin7

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i can feel a 'heart beat' in my area sometimes.. hehe.

Reply 11

keenya2006

omg...Psychology class!!! OK so...have u had bad sexual experiences in the past? If so, this is called "Stimulus Generalization," i think :rolleyes:

, in which u associated things that are similar to sex with that bad sexual experience i.e the thinking about sex is ur conditioned stimulus, and the anxiety or sickness you feel is ur conditioned response...u have taught urself to feel sick...just like u felt sick initially when the unconditioned stimulus occured. oh cool...can u be my case study?

Reply 12

-TMG-

9

Yeah if you have a bad experience then you will associate sex with pain.

However, it could just be your clitoris filling with blood, when my penis did that at first I reckon it felt a bit weird but now its ok. Yes, just ok lol :P

Could also be damaged nerve endings though, one time I squeezed my penis just as I was about to 'finish' and bruised a vein. It caused A LOT of pain to get an erection and then to masturbate, for about two weeks. The vein which was normall 1mm was 3mm wide when I squeezed it too hard. Good luck anyways.

Reply 13

i know what you mean..i also get it when im really really nervous...it doesnt feel nice :frown:

Reply 14

hugatree

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pumpkin7

i can feel a 'heart beat' in my area sometimes.. hehe.

LOL me too.

Anyway. I don't think you should see a doctor. :smile:

It hurts for me too sometimes. Then other times, it doesn't. I think it's normal ('cos others have it too sometimes) so don't worry. It'll go away soon (don't think masterbation helps really).
I think it's because it's the early stage of horniness, so maybe try to get more aroused and then have a w...?

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