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Reply 1
Someone did actually try this to me while drunk, except they didn't realise that alcohol makes me violent... hence I hit him in the face. So really I think it depends one whether alchohol makes you happy and carefree or (as in my case) bitter, violent and sardonic...
Reply 2
Firebird
I am just wondering... If someone of the same sex who is attractive tried to kiss you, would you kiss them back or not? (Assume that you're single and have had some alcohol).

This question is only to straight people really, so if you're gay, would you kiss someone back of the opposite sex if they were attractive?
Yup.
Reply 3
ive pulled my mates when out, but dont think i would do to a stranger but thats jus me, maybe if she was reallllly fit! or famous lol
Reply 4
im gay and i highly doubt id kiss a girl
Reply 5
yeah sure. why not? i have done so in the past.

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don't think it is 'gay tendencies' though, just curiosity or being comfortable with your sexuality
Reply 6
but

whats the point of kissing a guy if you're a straight guy

i dont think there's any inherent virtue in kssing someone you're not attracted to tbh
TKR

i dont think there's any inherent virtue in kssing someone you're not attracted to tbh

Do you not think though that there is a greater degree of ambivalence than the terms "gay" and "straight" allow for?
I've kissed friends while drunk, just to see what it was like, and one time to get rid of a bloke, he asked us to prove we were gay. Not sure if I would with a stranger, unless it was Angelina Jolie or Scarlett Johansson, I'd jump into bed with them right away!
Reply 9
Yup, I have kissed my mates when i'm drunk...
And I'd prolly do some when I'm sober...
Reply 10
you eitehr fancy them and kiss them or you dont, what sex they are really is irrelevant, you know the feelings you get inside come without control so i dont see its a decision ? it feels right or it dont
and to agree with TKR i could never kiss a girl is a passionate way.
yes, not if they were friends though as that would be weird.
Reply 12
Tw!stEd
Yup, I have kissed my mates when i'm drunk...
And I'd prolly do some when I'm sober...

your clearly not straight then :p: so you dont count
ferrus
Someone did actually try this to me while drunk, except they didn't realise that alcohol makes me violent... hence I hit him in the face.


so your basically a knob
Reply 14
englishstudent
Do you not think though that there is a greater degree of ambivalence than the terms "gay" and "straight" allow for?

:eek: omg :eek:
i actually agree with you :p:
I think there are many levels of sexuality most of which dont have a label such as gay bi or straight.

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MagicNMedicine
so your basically a knob
not really, the majority of the male population would react in this way i think, i mean for a hetro male the thought of kissing another man is quite repulsive and would deeply offend. while violence isnt encouraged i guess i can understand that sort of reaction.
Reply 15
englishstudent
Do you not think though that there is a greater degree of ambivalence than the terms "gay" and "straight" allow for?


Maybe for some people (especially mixed up "god my middle class suburban life is so awful" teenagers), but not fo the majority of people - 98% of the people I know are exclusively straight or exclusively gay. I don't buy into the idea that everyone is on some kind of sliding scale - it simply doesn't stand up to anecdotal evidence. Just because girls kiss their friends it doesn't mean they're sexually attracted to them - same for boys. It's always going to be tricky because we only have our personal experiences to go on.

Personally there is no doubt/confusion/grey area for me - I'm gay. I'm attracted to men. I can tell when a woman is good looking or not, but that doesn't mean I have any inclination to mate with her.
Firebird
I am just wondering... If someone of the same sex who is attractive tried to kiss you, would you kiss them back or not? (Assume that you're single and have had some alcohol).

This question is only to straight people really, so if you're gay, would you kiss someone back of the opposite sex if they were attractive?


Erm, I am bisexual, so maybe not the person you were looking for, but I would kiss back if there was attraction in some way. And it would not need alcohol :smile: I am not single either and would still do it.
Reply 17
oneway
your clearly not straight then :p: so you dont count


Well I think there's really only one very obvious answer for people who are entirely straight.
I'd kiss a bloke if he was fit enough and I was drunk enough...
TKR
I'm attracted to men. I can tell when a woman is good looking or not, but that doesn't mean I have any inclination to mate with her.


Same but opposite lol. I'm not gay but I could tell if a guy was good lookinh or not, but I would never mate with a guy as you put it lol. I have kissed a guy when drunk though and I remember that I didn't like it - upper lip is far too sharp :rolleyes: