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Ok, I met this girl one time at a Party. I'm a post-grad researching mathematics, she's a post-grad researching stats. So we both work in the same building. I chatted to her for hours and I quite liked her, she seemed really nice. So I went round her office and asked her if she wanted to go for lunch, she said she'd already eaten.

So I went back and asked again a couple of days later and she said she wasn't really hungry. I dunno I quite like her. I met her again at a party and we chatted some more. She was kinda drunk though, and these Indian guys were all over her sometimes. Which I didn't like at all.

Anyways, I'm feeling a bit confused, can anyone help me?

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Reply 1

Get the hints mate, heh

Reply 2

unrequited love :rolleyes:

Reply 3

*starry_eyed_*
unrequited love :rolleyes:


What does that mean?

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ferrus
Get the hints mate, heh


I don't get hints. It's part of my charm.

Reply 4

ninman
I don't get hints. It's part of my charm.
...he says before the court gives him a restraining order.

Reply 5

ninman
What does that mean?

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sorry but by the sounds of things, it doesn't sound like she's as keen on you as much as you are.

Reply 6

Oh well, life goes on.

Reply 7

ninman
Ok, I met this girl one time at a Party. I'm a post-grad researching mathematics, she's a post-grad researching stats. So we both work in the same building. I chatted to her for hours and I quite liked her, she seemed really nice. So I went round her office and asked her if she wanted to go for lunch, she said she'd already eaten.

So I went back and asked again a couple of days later and she said she wasn't really hungry. I dunno I quite like her. I met her again at a party and we chatted some more. She was kinda drunk though, and these Indian guys were all over her sometimes. Which I didn't like at all.

Anyways, I'm feeling a bit confused, can anyone help me?


I don't think she's interested in you, she seems to be making excuses for not going out to lunch with you...but then again I could be wrong. Next time, when your at a party and she's there, you should tell her how you feel about her and show that you're interested in her then see what she has to say about it...she'll probably be flattered...

Is she working in her office when you go over? You should try and approach at the right time when she's not working or havn't had lunch yet.

Hope that helped :smile:

Reply 8

i guess your the best judge keep trying, eventually she will say yes! unless you are annoying.

Reply 9

i hate to agree with everyone, but you should probably forget about her.

Reply 10

I dunno, she invited me to another party when we were at the last one.

Reply 11

she sounds like she's leading you on. be careful and don't get to wrapped up with her

Reply 12

*starry_eyed_*
she sounds like she's leading you on. be careful and don't get to wrapped up with her


Why would she do something like that?

Reply 13

ninman
Why would she do something like that?


god knows! maybe she's just a bitch

Reply 14

*starry_eyed_*
god knows! maybe she's just a bitch


She was probably just being friendly. I really didn't like the way those indian guys were all over her though. I mean she was drunk, that's taking advantage a little bit.

Reply 15

ninman
She was probably just being friendly. I really didn't like the way those indian guys were all over her though. I mean she was drunk, that's taking advantage a little bit.


yeah sorry, i was being too judgmental then! you are right though, she may be a nice girl.

Reply 16

However, she won't go out with me. Which sucks really.

Reply 17

What you probably need to do is just ignore her a little. Definitely stop asking her out for lunch. Go to that party she invited you to, say hi and then talk to other people for the rest of the time. Make her chase you instead, if she's interested. :smile:

Reply 18

Sounds like a plan, I'll do that.

Reply 19

why is it that u have to keep saying "indian guys" guys instead of just guys? have u got anything against that race in particular
would it not have mattered if she was just with guys instead of indian guys :confused: