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Grr, how much does it hurt when you bump into someone you proper like?!

A lot of people will probably know that for the past God knows how long, i've been completely obsessed with this Irish guy. Havn't seen him since end of October, when he ended things *we weren't going out, but kind of seeing each other type of thing*.

Anyway, just bumped into him, and it was the most awkward situation I think i've ever been in. I even said at the time "this is so awkward..." to which he didn't reply. I was with my one friend, and he was with about 7 mates at the cash point.

If we bump into each other again, do you think he'll ignore me because we've had the awkward 'seeing each other for the first time since' meeting?

Agh, I really do feel like crying!!

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Reply 1
cant say thats ever happened to me tbh. you could always try to pretend you didnt see him next time though. actually, probably a bad idea. i doubt hell ignore you, just say "hi" and start talking, and dont mention the fact thats its awkward.
Reply 2
Lol, I almost ignored him this time! I was walking to the cash point, like quietly to my friend "Ohmygod, theres xxxxxx, ohmygod, ohmygod" and i saw him turn around blatently because he saw me coming, so I was going to just walk past him, until my drunken friend goes "XXXXXX!!!" even though shes never met him.

I almost died! Im almost crying as well because I kinda still like him :redface:
Reply 3
If he ignores you next time, then thats his problem as he should of understood it would naturally be awkward first time, since the last time you spoke you sort of broke up.
So i wouldn't worry about it, if he speaks to you next time just dont mention the last time, and if hes all funny about it then its his loss
Reply 4
Yes it can be very painful if you bump heads.

hanging with 7 mates at the cash point? is he in some kind of gang or something?
Reply 5
Lol, no, he was at the cashpoint queue, and I was needing to walk past it to get home. Aghhh! I was all happy thinking he wont be back in Manchester yet, he'll still be at home, now thats shot to **** because I have a massive chance of seeing him aain because we live 5mintues from each other :redface:

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MNBStyle
If he ignores you next time, then thats his problem as he should of understood it would naturally be awkward first time, since the last time you spoke you sort of broke up.
So i wouldn't worry about it, if he speaks to you next time just dont mention the last time, and if hes all funny about it then its his loss
Yeah, I was not even thinking it was an issue, until he kept turning to his mates and laughing, then I felt all embarassed. I'm going to text him tomorrow and say something like "that was really awkward last night...good luck in your exams if you've got any left. You have a good Xmas? X" Thoughts?
Reply 6
Kittennffc
Lol, no, he was at the cashpoint queue, and I was needing to walk past it to get home. Aghhh! I was all happy thinking he wont be back in Manchester yet, he'll still be at home, now thats shot to **** because I have a massive chance of seeing him aain because we live 5mintues from each other :redface:

If you see him, just a friendly quick hello then moving on is all it takes.
Unless he trys making conversation of course :p: but like i said if hes funny about the last time,
Then its his loss

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Kittennffc
Yeah, I was not even thinking it was an issue, until he kept turning to his mates and laughing, then I felt all embarassed. I'm going to text him tomorrow and say something like "that was really awkward last night...good luck in your exams if you've got any left. You have a good Xmas? X" Thoughts?

I think it should be down to him to contact you, theres nopoint making a big thing of it towards him, was he laughing at you???
Reply 7
I don't know if he was laughing at me as such; I was wearing my skinny jeans and they make my bum look pretty good, and I didn't look too rough. They might have just been laughing at the situation, which is probably what I would have done if I was with loads of mates.

If I wait for him to contact me its not going to happen, which is why I wanna contact him. Would he think I was after something if I did? Even though i'm not as the boat has clearly sailed?!
Reply 8
Kittennffc
If I wait for him to contact me its not going to happen, which is why I wanna contact him. Would he think I was after something if I did? Even though i'm not as the boat has clearly sailed?!

Why wouldn't it happen if you wait for him????
And he might think your after something, unless there was a reason stopping you texting him during the holidays?
Reply 9
well we havn't spoken since we 'broke up' and I don't think he was even arsed that i'd even spoken to him tonight.

I havn't txt him since we 'broke up' purely because I couldn't bring myself to do it, and my housemates wouldn't let me, hehe, thinking nows a good time? Not so anything can happen, but purely so its not going to end on such a bad note, and so it wont be awkward if we bump into each other again which there is a good chance of happening.

I was so on the way to being over him until tonight reaffirmed to me how fit he was :frown:
Reply 10
just remember that you are the most important person. as long as you dont get hurt dont worry. well thats my view (God im soo self centered) :rolleyes:
Reply 11
Kittennffc
well we havn't spoken since we 'broke up' and I don't think he was even arsed that i'd even spoken to him tonight.

I havn't txt him since we 'broke up' purely because I couldn't bring myself to do it, and my housemates wouldn't let me, hehe, thinking nows a good time? Not so anything can happen, but purely so its not going to end on such a bad note, and so it wont be awkward if we bump into each other again which there is a good chance of happening.

I was so on the way to being over him until tonight reaffirmed to me how fit he was :frown:

Looks isn't everything thoe, he was stupid enough not to realise what a lovely nice girl you are after all.
So he isn't worth it i say :wink:
Reply 12
Lol, I know looks aren't everything, but you can't just turn your feelings for someone off.

I don't know why things ended, he claimed we wanted different things and prefered to be on his own, but I reckon that was just an excuse because I was a bitch/clingy/annoying/below him because hes at man uni and i'm at man met.

Mikeski: How ironic that you're from NI. So was he :frown: Bit too late for not getting hurt because I already am.

Should I text him or not?!
Reply 13
I suggest leave it a few days, because if you text him just moments after seeing him again he might think
"Man shes texting me already :rolleyes: " :p: so leave it a few days first.
Youll get over him soon dont worry, your a great girl after all :smile:
:hugs:
Reply 14
Kittennffc
Lol, I know looks aren't everything, but you can't just turn your feelings for someone off.

I don't know why things ended, he claimed we wanted different things and prefered to be on his own, but I reckon that was just an excuse because I was a bitch/clingy/annoying/below him because hes at man uni and i'm at man met.

Mikeski: How ironic that you're from NI. So was he :frown: Bit too late for not getting hurt because I already am.

Should I text him or not?!

well hunni, if you think that you could get a friendship or something more than by all means yes, but if you think ou will get hurt any more than you already are, than no, its not worth it, your number 1!!!
Reply 15
Awww, you guys are so lovely :smile: Mikeski, you're reassuring me that there are nice Irish people out there *I love you guys sooo much!*

I think i'm going to text him tomorrow afternoon and just be like, awkward last night but nice to see you, hope things are good with you X. Nothing too clingy, but going to ask him something so he has to reply, haha, wishful thinking seeing as he took about 7 hours to once text me back!

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You wouldn't ****ing believe it. Got iTunes on shuffle and Tony Basil - Mickey has come on. I'm laughing so much because its just not funny!
Reply 16
Kittennffc
Awww, you guys are so lovely :smile: Mikeski, you're reassuring me that there are nice Irish people out there *I love you guys sooo much!*

I think i'm going to text him tomorrow afternoon and just be like, awkward last night but nice to see you, hope things are good with you X. Nothing too clingy, but going to ask him something so he has to reply, haha, wishful thinking seeing as he took about 7 hours to once text me back!

:hugs: Hugs all around, man that guy is weird for not wanting you
Reply 17
Kittennffc
Awww, you guys are so lovely :smile: Mikeski, you're reassuring me that there are nice Irish people out there *I love you guys sooo much!*

I think i'm going to text him tomorrow afternoon and just be like, awkward last night but nice to see you, hope things are good with you X. Nothing too clingy, but going to ask him something so he has to reply, haha, wishful thinking seeing as he took about 7 hours to once text me back!

lol awk :hugs:

yea if you wanna txt him then leave it til tomorrow, hope it works out for ya hunni xoxo :smile:

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MNBStyle
:hugs: Hugs all around, man that guy is weird for not wanting you

:ditto: :p:
Reply 18
Awww :biggrin: *Hugs back*

You should see my picture before saying that :redface:
Reply 19
the one in your profile? nice lookin lad :p: