Need Help!!

Hi, k i kinda hav this girl problem. Bit annoying cos i keep thinking abt it. Rite, so its lik this: There's this girl in my school who I kinda fancy. I dont THINK i luv (wut really is luv??) her but i cant stop thinking abt her. The problem is she's going out with this guy for like 2 years or sumthin and I think he really luvs her. But the guy's in uni now and i think he's like 2 years older than her. Anyway, i THINK she kinda likes me and i want to ask her out. But the thing is I have this prob where i stop liking a girl after sumtime (maybe cos i havent met the rite girl yet, who knws) and i really dont think i want to have a very long-term relationship wit her cos she really isnt that nice (bit bitchy (is that a word :confused:

) ) and short lik 5' 4 (i'm 6). So i'm worried abt asking her out cos i'm afraid that i will stop liking her and i will most probably be going to uni in Oct and u knw wut they say abt uni life. :wink:

. So u c i dont want to break thm up for nothing (i.e. if she says yes) and probably mess up wut they've got going (wuteva it is). But at the same time i want to ask her out cos i cant stop thinking abt her. I have never felt lik this abt a gal before. Wut am i supposed to do? Talk to her? But wut am i supposed to say? :frown:

Reply 1

Fleece

Wow. Just tell her what you told us and i'm sure she'll drop her bf for you :rolleyes:

Reply 2

fundamentally

Anonymous

But the thing is I have this prob where i stop liking a girl after sumtime (maybe cos i havent met the rite girl yet, who knws) and i really dont think i want to have a very long-term relationship wit her cos she really isnt that nice (bit bitchy (is that a word :confused:

) ) and short lik 5' 4 (i'm 6).

Just write all that on a nice card and send it to her, complete with spelling mistakes and grammatical errors. I am sure that you will bowl her over.

Reply 3

scutt

fundamentally

Just write all that on a nice card and send it to her, complete with spelling mistakes and grammatical errors. I am sure that you will bowl her over.

Word.

And here we were thinking romance was dead!

Reply 4

i must say u guys & gals are bloody gud at giving advice !?! :mad:

Reply 5

34253

I reccomend you take up a long term English course.

Reply 6

KateSm

Jsut leave it. It's not 'love' if you think she's a bitch and will go off her. She might not even say yes.

Reply 7

Boy1

Been there done that (a few times actually) and trust me it feels like sh*t but its best to leave it. Dont get involved in their relationship. U mite tell her you like her if she doesn't no but other than that dont do anything else. If she wants u more than him then she'll go out with u and split up with him. simple