i have got really bad jealousy. i started my new job way bk in july fulltime but now part time. anyway, i met my boyf who is a chef there. i liked him immediately, but i also knew that an older friend was practicallly in love with him. we started texting and going out and i knew through this and others that he didnt feel this way bout her and he aked me out loads but because of this i delined desite my own feelings but in sept finally realised i couldnt ignore them, i had him tellling me how he felt and denying my own feelings, but then after thinking i went out with him and i deeply love him. i found it hard with this other women, espec when i knew thru her confiding, but she seemed to take it well. but she makes comments to me bout my boyf and i have heard other really sexual things bout my boyf.the final straw came when she is trying to go out with my boyf brother and i quote as she sed to me"even tho he is not as good as x". this is very difficult because i do like her but i am overcome with jealousy. my boyf says he has never liked her and is always telling me how he loves me. my fear is that being a part timer and this girl is full time, they c each other all the time and i worry i will be left. i trust but jealousy is so complex an emotion-i am going to blow one time and end losing my job. i see her seeing his brother as a way of getting close to him and his bro does not deserve to be caught up help me!!!