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Sex prob
I didn't really feel comfortable about posting this here but I need help, well I've been going out with my boyfriend for bout 2 months now, known and liked him for ages, anyway. Recently we've been trying to have sex, I'm a virgin he's not, at first he couldn't put a bloody condom on but no thats sorted now our problem is we can't physically have sex with the stupid thing on, it is possible without. I'm not on the pill and I don't really want to right now but how can we sort out this stupid problem, coz im getting pretty fed up. Yes we've tried various positions, times, places but nothing works with a condom!!
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Bit of KY and some more foreplay should work. Are you still a virgin? I didn't quite understand if you were as you said you were yet you can have sex without a johnny?
Have you tried a different brand? Maybe it's too thick?
Oh, and relax! That is the only way to successful first time sex (Esp. if you're a girl)
Have you tried a different brand? Maybe it's too thick?
Oh, and relax! That is the only way to successful first time sex (Esp. if you're a girl)
Flukey
Can you explain exactly as to why it doesn't work with a condom on?
The penis will not enter the vagina.
InaSpin
Bit of KY and some more foreplay should work. Are you still a virgin? I didn't quite understand if you were as you said you were yet you can have sex without a johnny?
Have you tried a different brand? Maybe it's too thick?
Oh, and relax! That is the only way to successful first time sex (Esp. if you're a girl)
Have you tried a different brand? Maybe it's too thick?
Oh, and relax! That is the only way to successful first time sex (Esp. if you're a girl)
It wasn't full sex but it went in without the condom on, not the whole way of course. We've tried bout 3 brands still no help and enough foreplay to fill up a magazine.
Try some lube and a thinner johnny - such as Mates Sheer Pleasure. They are very thin.
You're not the only person who has this problem. I did the first time and gave up cos it wouldn't go in. The next time was without and it was fine
(Prepares to be slated for not using a condom...)
You're not the only person who has this problem. I did the first time and gave up cos it wouldn't go in. The next time was without and it was fine
(Prepares to be slated for not using a condom...)
i think you need some lube! i dont see how it will work without one tho when condoms seem to be more lubricated!
get some lube
Chickadee
Maybe its not the condom?
InaSpin
Bit of KY and some more foreplay should work. Are you still a virgin? I didn't quite understand if you were as you said you were yet you can have sex without a johnny?
Have you tried a different brand? Maybe it's too thick?
Oh, and relax! That is the only way to successful first time sex (Esp. if you're a girl)
Have you tried a different brand? Maybe it's too thick?
Oh, and relax! That is the only way to successful first time sex (Esp. if you're a girl)
It wasn't full sex but it went in without the condom on, not the whole way of course. We've tried bout 3 brands still no help and enough foreplay to fill up a magazine.
Try a glass or two of wine...that should relax you (Drunk sex is never good though; tipsy is fine!)
wednesburywench
i think you need some lube! i dont see how it will work without one tho when condoms seem to be more lubricated!
Thats what I don't get but i guess ill have to try that, im sure u didnt need lube with condoms though.
InaSpin
Try a glass or two of wine...that should relax you (Drunk sex is never good though; tipsy is fine!)
I don't think its got anything 2 do with that, bloody stupid condoms!!!
Anonymous
Thats what I don't get but i guess ill have to try that, im sure u didnt need lube with condoms though.
InaSpin
Try some lube and a thinner johnny - such as Mates Sheer Pleasure. They are very thin.
You're not the only person who has this problem. I did the first time and gave up cos it wouldn't go in. The next time was without and it was fine
(Prepares to be slated for not using a condom...)
You're not the only person who has this problem. I did the first time and gave up cos it wouldn't go in. The next time was without and it was fine
(Prepares to be slated for not using a condom...)
I feel like im heading that way
You keep forgetting to post anon
Seriously though - relaxing will help. It's unlikely to be the johnny. You probs aren't wet enough and he might not be fully erect?
Suggest the lube and if that doesn't work, go on the pill?
^ ^ Agreed chickadee! That's wh I suggested alternative ways to relax!
Seriously though - relaxing will help. It's unlikely to be the johnny. You probs aren't wet enough and he might not be fully erect?
Suggest the lube and if that doesn't work, go on the pill?
^ ^ Agreed chickadee! That's wh I suggested alternative ways to relax!
i cant quite see whats the issue with the condoms to be honest.surly it a thin layer of latex can actually physically stop his penis entering you....its more than likely to be an issue relating to how turned on you are....either that or ur allergic to condoms, but even that wouldnt stop you from actually having sex.
Chickadee
I always use lube with condoms.
I'm still failing to see how its a condoms fault that the penis wont go in
I'm still failing to see how its a condoms fault that the penis wont go in
Because it goes in without the condom, but im not and not going on the pill just yet.
That's why you need lube - rubber is going to be so much drier than skin!
And you have forgotten to posts anon further up the page
Go grab some KY, grab yer bloke, have a go.
I'll place money on it wokring :P
And you have forgotten to posts anon further up the page
Go grab some KY, grab yer bloke, have a go.
I'll place money on it wokring :P
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