okay when to text

okay well i slept with a girl and i wanted her to stay till the morning. but she left at like half four in the morning. she got up got changed and went-she didnt say anything. i was awake but couldnt be bother saying anything just carried on snoozing.anyway i want to see her again. how long should i leave it till i text her so it doesnt look like i am gagging for it?

Reply 1

Leigh

15

I don't really go in for all these "mind games", but I guess that's of no use to you. Are you looking to date this girl, or just sleep with her again? I'd say that would affect when you text.

To date, the next couple of days or so, ask what was up, etc etc.
If you just want to sleep with her, play it cool, ignore her for a while until you're next... looking to see her, then text out of the blue and ask what she's up to?

Reply 2

Sydney

1

Text her tomorrow, she'll either like that you're keen and value her beyond a one-night-stand, or will tell you it was a one-night thing. If it is the latter she will still say that if you text her next week, you'll just be kept in suspense! Fingers crossed its the former :wink:

Reply 3

PublicSchoolAnn

13

KingLeigh

I don't really go in for all these "mind games", but I guess that's of no use to you. Are you looking to date this girl, or just sleep with her again? I'd say that would affect when you text.

To date, the next couple of days or so, ask what was up, etc etc.
If you just want to sleep with her, play it cool, ignore her for a while until you're next... looking to see her, then text out of the blue and ask what she's up to?

date. but sleeping with her again wouldnt be bad either.

Reply 4

Jayjayjay

1

Maybe a silly question, but why did you want her to stay until the morning?

Reply 5

david cool

10

I say text her , dont do wat I do............lol

Reply 6

Jayjayjay

Maybe a silly question, but why did you want her to stay until the morning?

because she was so nice.

Reply 7

pumpkin7

13

Anonymous

okay well i slept with a girl and i wanted her to stay till the morning. but she left at like half four in the morning. she got up got changed and went-she didnt say anything. i was awake but couldnt be bother saying anything just carried on snoozing.anyway i want to see her again. how long should i leave it till i text her so it doesnt look like i am gagging for it?

if she left in the morning, i would take this as a sign that she didn't really want to be there.. and wanted to leave as soon as possible.. hmm..

Reply 8

G4ry

1

She probably only did it for sex, you've gotten attached which you shouldn't do in that situation.

Reply 9

ha i so dont get it. on friday she texted me to meet up but i said i couldnt make. then on saturday i texted her to see if she wanted to meet,she replied so quickly that she did. she was the one that suggested coming back to mine- though i was totally feeling her up in the club but i was okay with drawing a line. but then leaving so early :frown:

ha plus i senther a message just saying i hope she got home okay and said have a nice day(a message that didnt really need a reply but would have been nice to get one.) but yeah going to text her tomorrow.

Reply 10

Jayjayjay

1

It seems like she presumed it to be a one night stand.

Reply 11

G4ry

1

Wait...so you knew her beforehand and didn't just meet her in a club and go back together. The plot thickens....

Reply 12

Sydney

1

How was the sex? This is probably what it hinges on - whether or not she wants to meet up again.... :p:

Reply 13

Bohemianthinker

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Anonymous

ha i so dont get it. on friday she texted me to meet up but i said i couldnt make. then on saturday i texted her to see if she wanted to meet,she replied so quickly that she did. she was the one that suggested coming back to mine- though i was totally feeling her up in the club but i was okay with drawing a line. but then leaving so early :frown:

ha plus i senther a message just saying i hope she got home okay and said have a nice day(a message that didnt really need a reply but would have been nice to get one.) but yeah going to text her tomorrow.

Sounds like she wants more funkin' to be honest. Just text saying, "hey babe, want to listen to some funk and then funk?" Works for me.

Reply 14

er i dont know if this makes any difference but its a lesbian thing.

Reply 15

Bohemianthinker

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Anonymous

er i dont know if this makes any difference but its a lesbian thing.

I'll let you know funk is perfectly acceptable for all sexualities in these enlightened days.

Reply 16

Sydney

1

Bohemianthinker

I'll let you know funk is perfectly acceptable for all sexualities in these enlightened days.

Hear Hear! :biggrin:

Sadly we are not all gifted with A level maths and will have mosy on through life oblivious to these dilemma solving equations......*sighs* such is the life of the arts student.... :p:

Reply 19

Bohemianthinker

1

This thread has descended to a level of silliness not seen since someone decided putting Noel Edmunds back on tele would be a good idea.

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