sex is strange

Is there only me who thinks this? The feelings just weird I wouldn't describe it as 'good' or nice just a strange feeling that I want more of.
What do you think?

Reply 1

silence

it's called being a caveman at heart. don't worry.

Reply 2

Sydney

So when you're having sex do you not say "that feels good" or "that's nice", but "I want more of that" :p:

Although I do agree, sex is a strange phenomenon, and it seems to have caught on like wildfire...like furbies and Ugg boots.... :wink:

Reply 3

grace

why would you want more of it if it's not 'good' or 'nice'? the only way i can imagine not describing sex as good is if it's, erm, crap, obviously. in which case you need to revise your sex life.

Reply 4

Riddy

grace

why would you want more of it if it's not 'good' or 'nice'? the only way i can imagine not describing sex as good is if it's, erm, crap, obviously. in which case you need to revise your sex life.

I don't know its a strange feeling or maybe I should say good but in a different way. Its like a mixture of guilt/embarrasment and nice :confused:

Reply 5

silence

maybe there's a kebab, or something of the sort, involved.

Reply 6

saoirse

Guilt? Any reason why?

Reply 7

justbrowsing

No it's not, it's lush.

Reply 8

Riddy

saoirse

Guilt? Any reason why?

No I don't know why

Reply 9

grace

Riddy

No I don't know why

maybe you're not ready to be having sex? or maybe it's not with the right person? seriously, i cannot fathom sex ever causing guilt or embarassment unless you're violating another person or not in quite the right situation (ie shagging someone else's partner). personally i don't think sex needs to always be with someone you love, but i do definately think it needs to be with someone you're comfortable with so it's not embarrassing (or at least with someone you're never going to see again, so that way if something embarrassing happens it won't matter as you'll never have to see them again...!) ahhh the voice of wisdom.

Reply 10

strawberry

silence

it's called being a caveman at heart. don't worry.

oh that's hilarious! ahhahahahaha! *rofl* I dunno why but it just tickled my funny bone!

Reply 11

Jonatan

Riddy

No I don't know why

Sounds to me as if you need to communicate a little more with your partner. Find out what you like. There really isn't any reason to feel guilty about wanting to have sex. Its quite normal. Just make sure you use protection and so on...

Also, altho can't claim to be particularily experienced in the field. I do know that some peopel take longer to properly enjoy it. Maybe you just need soem more time and practise.