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Pulling a person of the same/opposite sex...
I wanted to clear up all of the other threads about it...
Would you do it?
Poll coming...
oh wait I cant so a poll cos I'm accidently pressed anon, oops, ok, your thoughts, is it ok when drunk etc etc.
edit: oh thought I better say - I'm not worried about it - not to sound cliched but a friend is, an also - there are so many posts on this type of thing at the moment - I thought it might be wise to just do one solid thread...
Would you do it?
Poll coming...
oh wait I cant so a poll cos I'm accidently pressed anon, oops, ok, your thoughts, is it ok when drunk etc etc.
edit: oh thought I better say - I'm not worried about it - not to sound cliched but a friend is, an also - there are so many posts on this type of thing at the moment - I thought it might be wise to just do one solid thread...
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hugatree
It's always ok as long as you're single. 
Being tipsy makes it better though.
Being tipsy makes it better though.I agree on the first part, but why on earth would it be better when tipsy?
Kissing someone for the first time while you are all nervous and mentally bouncing in the ceiling out of excitement is surely better than just slobbing of with someone while you are drunk? Still remember first time I kissed Linda ( girlfriend as of two years now ). It was so great.
nervous, nervous, nervous, excited, up in the clouds of joy, slowly down on a pink little cloud...
In my opinion, if you're tipsy you miss the whole nervous part before you get overwhealemd with good feelings which is half the fun.
snicker, god I sound like a 13 year old school girl now, but then I've been up for 26 hours and had half a litre of latte, so I'm a bit bouncy at the moment
Kissing is fine!!
A male and a female, a male and a male, a female and a female [oooh, the choices!!], as long as you're single!!
Drunk, tipsy or sober - doesn't really matter
I mean sure, you could regret it at a later date but a kiss is a kiss really - doesn't matter all that much!!
Having said that my views KINDA contradict that, but only because I see a kiss as a highly personal thing - I'm not very good with contact so letting someones lips actually touch mine is a bigger step for me than a lot of people might think
- I have some wierd 'pet hates' though!! So yeah, whatever floats your boat really!! Do what you like!!
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Strange, I've been told several times that I'm a better kisser when drunk - mind you the people I've been kissing drunk tend to have been drunk too so, I guess they aren't the best judge of it!!
A male and a female, a male and a male, a female and a female [oooh, the choices!!], as long as you're single!!
Drunk, tipsy or sober - doesn't really matter
I mean sure, you could regret it at a later date but a kiss is a kiss really - doesn't matter all that much!!
Having said that my views KINDA contradict that, but only because I see a kiss as a highly personal thing - I'm not very good with contact so letting someones lips actually touch mine is a bigger step for me than a lot of people might think
- I have some wierd 'pet hates' though!! So yeah, whatever floats your boat really!! Do what you like!! --------------
Jelkin
I agree with Jonatan, kissing is always better when you're sober, and you do a better job of it as well!
Jonatan
I agree on the first part, but why on earth would it be better when tipsy?
Kissing someone for the first time while you are all nervous and mentally bouncing in the ceiling out of excitement is surely better than just slobbing of with someone while you are drunk? Still remember first time I kissed Linda ( girlfriend as of two years now ). It was so great.
nervous, nervous, nervous, excited, up in the clouds of joy, slowly down on a pink little cloud...
Kissing someone for the first time while you are all nervous and mentally bouncing in the ceiling out of excitement is surely better than just slobbing of with someone while you are drunk? Still remember first time I kissed Linda ( girlfriend as of two years now ). It was so great.
nervous, nervous, nervous, excited, up in the clouds of joy, slowly down on a pink little cloud...
Pulling someone from the same sex has got nothing to do with any of that, that's just for experimenting. (Not that I do it a lot, mind. I'm a good girl.)hugatree
Dude you're talking about being in love/having a crush on someone. Pulling someone from the same sex has got nothing to do with any of that, that's just for experimenting. (Not that I do it a lot, mind. I'm a good girl.)
Pulling someone from the same sex has got nothing to do with any of that, that's just for experimenting. (Not that I do it a lot, mind. I'm a good girl.)Hmmmm, I personally would not kiss someone if I was not atracted to them, but then boy or girl doesn't really make much difference for me when it comes to that, so I guess I don't reallly understand what you mean... Well regardless I'd say kissing is better when you are sober. Of course, you may just end up being more likely to kiss when slightly tipsy, but thats a different thing.
both is fine and fun! i " went out" with a girl for a while as in we made out regularly and even slept with her, but i prefer guys, and am in a relationship with one. i guess im bi but i defo want to end up with a guy. kissing girls is amazing tho, because its more sensual and there is a slight sense of taboo... also my first kiss with a girl was in a hotel room so it was quite kinky lol
I think it's fine if you actually think they are attractive. I hated it at school when girls who were straight kissed each other just so the boys would give them attention. Sigh!
cobra
my first kiss and all my kisses so far were with guys but I still imagine my self with a girl eventually, i dunno why!
Could it be that you want what is considdered an average "normal" life with a family and children?
I know I went through a period where I kept asking myself if I could see settle down together with a man and never have any kids. In the end I figured I will just settle down with whoever turns out to be the love of my life and take it from there.
wow Jonatan, being bisexual must be tough (especially for a guy). i don't really believe in bisexual guys though (dont take it personally- i am just making a point). i think that a bisexual guy is alsways a secretly-deep inside gay guy or i dont know what. personally i don't like bisexuality though i find it a turn-on for some weird reason.
i know i am going to settle down with a man and never have any kids. It hurt a lot when i realised i would never have a family cos i love kids. but I'd be lucky (and it is the same for most gay people) to actually have someone to settle down with. the most scary thing is to end up alone at the age of 45-50, still doing one-night stands, and no-one to go home too at night.
It's ok to pull people when u r drunk but i hate it!!! it feels horrible for someone to pull you when u dont want to and start making out with u. of course in the rare occasions when i was drunk (coughing) em it was quite a lot of fun. once i ended up snogging with two guys at the same time..literally -they were friends...it was New Year's Eve clubbing hehe so it's allowed:P
i know i am going to settle down with a man and never have any kids. It hurt a lot when i realised i would never have a family cos i love kids. but I'd be lucky (and it is the same for most gay people) to actually have someone to settle down with. the most scary thing is to end up alone at the age of 45-50, still doing one-night stands, and no-one to go home too at night.
It's ok to pull people when u r drunk but i hate it!!! it feels horrible for someone to pull you when u dont want to and start making out with u. of course in the rare occasions when i was drunk (coughing) em it was quite a lot of fun. once i ended up snogging with two guys at the same time..literally -they were friends...it was New Year's Eve clubbing hehe so it's allowed:P
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