He stays hard after ejaculation: did he actually ***? Watch

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So, I had sex with the guy I am seeing for the first time (and it was actually my first time in general) yesterday. He has a lot of experience, and luckily all went well.

We did it with a condom, and do he did seem to enjoy it - he made some noise etc.- I never QUITE felt him *** (AM I SUPPOSED TO FEEL THAT?!) but he did do the whole "Oh ****, that was awesome" but stayed quite composed.

After, he was still rock hard too.

Is that normal?

Did I just encounter the first guy ever who attempts to fake an orgasm, because he was put off?

After, he didn't attempt to have sex again and not the next morning either... Is that weird? He did want to kiss etc.
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My first time, probably because I was so tight I think I could feel the tip of the condom filling up and when you take it off you can see if it's filled with a clear-white liquid.
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Depends how long his erection carried on for? I mean, for me, *shifty eyes*, I stay hard for about 30 seconds after. You have to think of it biologically, you undergo an erection when you're sexually stimulated. Therefore, the blood is going to leave instantly, it will take a while after the erection.
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I can't usually tell if my boyfriend cums even without a condom. I guess it's already so wet in there I can't feel a bit of extra liquid. He usually stay hard for about a minute afterwards though then it goes.
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It's quite common to stay hard after ejaculating and don't be worried about him not wanting sex the next day or whatever, everybody has different sex drives, take comfort in knowing he still wanted to kiss and stuff.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
So, I had sex with the guy I am seeing for the first time (and it was actually my first time in general) yesterday. He has a lot of experience, and luckily all went well.

We did it with a condom, and do he did seem to enjoy it - he made some noise etc.- I never QUITE felt him *** (AM I SUPPOSED TO FEEL THAT?!) but he did do the whole "Oh ****, that was awesome" but stayed quite composed.

After, he was still rock hard too.

Is that normal?

Did I just encounter the first guy ever who attempts to fake an orgasm, because he was put off?

After, he didn't attempt to have sex again and not the next morning either... Is that weird? He did want to kiss etc.
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Thanks for the replies! He stayed hard for a good 5 minutes I think. And he took off the condom himself, so I didn't see. He did sort of collapse on me...

WELL NEVER MIND. lol.

Sorry for this ridiculous thread.
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Thanks for the replies! He stayed hard for a good 5 minutes I think. And he took off the condom himself, so I didn't see. He did sort of collapse on me...

WELL NEVER MIND. lol.

Sorry for this ridiculous thread.
Sounds like he might have ejaculated a little without having an orgasm [maybe whilst trying not to finish]. Has happened to me before, managed to stay a little less than hard for a good few minutes. If he was like 'rock' hard for a good five-minutes then I do wonder if he ejaculated at all. I mean it's common to have an erection after ejaculating still but it's usually a bit softer. Who knows, he might have just felt himself reaching climax, did the 'oh **** this is so good stuff' then carried on after the feeling went away. It all sounds normal anyway :P
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Sounds like he might have ejaculated a little without having an orgasm [maybe whilst trying not to finish]. Has happened to me before, managed to stay a little less than hard for a good few minutes. If he was like 'rock' hard for a good five-minutes then I do wonder if he ejaculated at all. I mean it's common to have an erection after ejaculating still but it's usually a bit softer. Who knows, he might have just felt himself reaching climax, did the 'oh **** this is so good stuff' then carried on after the feeling went away. It all sounds normal anyway :P
Well, he wasn't rock hard I supposed. Just still hard... I just hope it wasn't very bad for him. Since I am a virgin, and he is in his mid-twenties (I am a lot younger), and he is probably used to a lot better. He does get hard very easily it seems, he already is after a bit above the belt action...
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Ha I've faked one before when I just couldn't be arsed anymore, it's possible generally you will feel it tho
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Me and my boyfriend hadnt seen each other in 10 days and obviously the first thing we did was jump on each other and we had sex for a good.. 45+ minutes i mean best sex ever. I seen him ejaculate and he lay on the bed for 5 mins and he was still rock solid. So we carried on to have sex again an he then ejaculated a 2nd time. The next morning we had sex for about 30 mins but he could not ejaculate after him ejaculating about 7 times the night before. Some men are diffrent.
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Ejaculation and orgasm are two separate - though usually linked - processes. It's possible to orgasm without ejaculating and, less enjoyably, ejaculate without orgasm.

Ejaculation, rather than orgasm, is the usual prelude to an erection going away, but the rate at which it happens varies a lot between men, and for an individual man, on things like how turned on he is and how old.
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I'm in my 50's and i still stay rock hard after ejaculation/orgasm so yes its normal...
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Viagra???
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It's called the elusive "Everwood." Basically it means he doesn't need to wait between orgasms. About one percent of men don't go soft after ejaculation. If you don't stimulate it, it can take anywhere from 5-20 minutes (in my case) to go soft.
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I think the only way for you to have been sure if he orgasmed was to look at condom afterwards.
That aside, some guys stay hard and some don't. I often stay hard and just carry on for second orgasm if I am just solo masturbating or having sex with someone.
Hope things go well for you and this guy 😎
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I began experiencing sustained erections post orgasm with ejaculation in my late 40s, 48 to be exact. That was when I met my 2nd wife who is 25 years younger. We've been married 15 years now, I'm 63, and I still have sustained erections. My wife comments on it frequently. I do not orgasm again but I can still pleasure her. I've often wondered if its a symptom of delayed vaso-dialation, since vaso-constriction causes the erection. Maybe its my blood pressure. I prefer to believe it's because she is my fantasy.
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I stay hard even after ejaculation till a second recharge. All this time though it was abnormal but it’s quite normal from what I’m reading so that’s good. I had an understanding that after ejaculation should go soft but that’s just not true ok 👌🏾 ty
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