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How long till I move on?

Basically, I was in a relationship and I really cared for the guy I was with. When the relationship started everything was perfect. But since then my feelings were deteriorating and I didnt feel for him the way he felt for me. I broke up with him 2 weeks ago, but in my head I've been single for months because I couldnt bring myself to break up with him.

I know I'm ready to move on, and have been talking to an old friend from primary school that I really get on with. He wants to meet up with me this weekend, and I really want to. Am I moving on too quick? Do you think I should tell my ex, as we still talk?

Reply 1

Original post by Anonymous
Basically, I was in a relationship and I really cared for the guy I was with. When the relationship started everything was perfect. But since then my feelings were deteriorating and I didnt feel for him the way he felt for me. I broke up with him 2 weeks ago, but in my head I've been single for months because I couldnt bring myself to break up with him.

I know I'm ready to move on, and have been talking to an old friend from primary school that I really get on with. He wants to meet up with me this weekend, and I really want to. Am I moving on too quick? Do you think I should tell my ex, as we still talk?


No, I think it's your choice about the pace you move on at, however I think out of respect you should keep it from your ex for a while, or at least until he asks :smile:

Reply 2

Your choice, depends on if he is still getting over you, and how you describe this meeting to be honest cos he may well take it the wrong way.