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bleeding

sorry if there has been topics on this before, i have looked through a few but need some definate answers!!! sorry!!

basically, im not a virgin and have never bleed in sex, had sex a fair few times, nothing recently though. My boyf has been fingering me for about a month, but the last 2 times i have bleed a bit, only a little but enough for im to notice (he mentioned it in a sweet way) he is quite hard and vigerous etc, but he is real worried about me. Is it normal to bleed even if not a virgin etc, you rekon a trip to the doctor or should just wait + c if it continues!!

i apologise again, i know there r similar posts,
thankuxxxxx

Reply 1

bone-machine

well if he's getting faster..putting more fingers in etc..it could be possible that hes tearing a bit more each time..maybe you have lot of hymen to break and it hasnt all gone yet...id been having sex for a while and one time quite late on..there was a bit of blood..and we wondered why but i assume it was just because i tore a little bit more due to new posiiton, bit rougher etc etc...

i wouldnt worry about it too much..especially since its the last two times..this suggest to me that you tore a bit that hadnt completely broken before..didnt have time to heal properly..so next time he fingered you it re-opned, and bled a llittle bit more
that would eb the explaination that id give myself..and unless you like it..ask him to not be so rough...just to save you the worry..also his finger nails arnt long are they??

give it a bit of time before you go to the doctors
xxx

Reply 2

Helenia

It may not necessarily be remnants of hymen either, it could just be that he's scratched you or torn the vaginal walls slightly. Just get him to be gentle for a while and if that doesn't sort it out then it's doctor time.

Reply 3

La Trampa

well maybe he had long nails at the time?? and the wounds (not wounds but the place he opened when he fingered u the first time) hadn't healed properly before he started again the next time? just tell him to be really gentle and maybe you could try some lube,reduce the friction.

Reply 4

hull chic

I'd definately make sure that he has short nails as the skin round there is very easy to tear and like everyone has said tell him to be a bit more gentle the next few times and if it still keeps happening see your GP