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    I've been with my boyfriend a while and we haven't slept together yet and I'm a virgin.

    1. When you first lost your virginity (if it wasn't a ONS) how long was you in a relationship for?
    2. How long do you normally wait before you sleep with someone?
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    17. It was a ONS
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    How long is "a while"? Lol.
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    With my first boyfriend, we were both virgins and we waited 3 months.

    With my second boyfriend, it was 6 weeks.

    Do whatever feels right, as long as you're both ready!
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    (Original post by AidanKD)
    How long is "a while"? Lol.
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    Been together since Feb, we were both virgins, it happened a few weeks ago. My first relationship and his first sexual one.
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    I lost my virginity to my current (and first ever) boyfriend 5 days into our relationship ...
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    I'm 16.
    1) Liked the guy for ages (more than a year) but never had the guts to ask :/ So when he finally did ask me, I lost my virginity 3 days into the relationship...(That really wasn't like me :L)
    2) I've only been with one guy. And that guy, had only ever been with one girl
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    1st - waited around 3 months, though had known one another for 10 months by then...
    2nd- erm... the first night..... :o:
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    A day after I told her I had feelings for her and a week before our first date
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    We lost our virginity to eachother after 2.5 months and we're still together 3 yrs on
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    Just before our 3rd anniversary. we were both virgins.
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    1) 18, we were together for about 2 months.
    2) I don't have a set amount of time. As long as we are both comfortable.
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    1. About a week into the relationship
    2. I do it when it feels right
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    1. About a month after we met, but before we were in a relationship. He had a girlfriend. I know, not the best circumstances to lose your virginity in, I wouldn't recommend it. We were together for 16 month afterwards though.
    2. With my current boyfriend it was about 5 days after we met.

    Just like everyone else has said, whenever it feels right.
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    I was not with him, however he had a girlfriend.
    But I have known him for 8 years.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I've been with my boyfriend a while and we haven't slept together yet and I'm a virgin.

    1. When you first lost your virginity (if it wasn't a ONS) how long was you in a relationship for?
    2. How long do you normally wait before you sleep with someone?
    1. When I lost my virginity it was in a weird circumstance but im a tad strange, basically I lost my virginity to my best mate because a) hes a horny git and always will be. . . b) I wanted to have sex . . . c)I trusted him so whatever floats ur boat really.
    2. Ive been with my current boyfriend for over 7 months and we had sex before we went out (yehh that was slutty I know but hey it worked out great so who the **** cares?)
    just depends on what you want really, if the idea of having sex scares or unnerves you then dont do it until you're fully ready, its well worth the wait
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    I was with my boyfriend 2 years before we slept together, at 18. This may seem like a ridiculously long time, but I'm pleased I waited and it sort of proved to me that it wasn't just about sex for him. Still going strong 3 years later.
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    (Original post by sarahthegemini)
    I lost my virginity to my current (and first ever) boyfriend 5 days into our relationship ...
    Why the '...'s? Dont be embarrassed or ashamed by it. As long as your both comfortable with it, thats fine. There's not a time restriction.

    When losing my virginity it was 3 weeks (never done anything apart from kiss anyone.) All other boyfriends after were before we got in a relationship.
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    (Original post by Tw1x)
    Why the '...'s? Dont be embarrassed or ashamed by it. As long as your both comfortable with it, thats fine. There's not a time restriction.

    When losing my virginity it was 3 weeks (never done anything apart from kiss anyone.) All other boyfriends after were before we got in a relationship.
    I thought I'd get judged for it tbh, and I didn't wanna look as though I was bragging/boasting I know it was quick, but it felt so right. And we've been together 5 months now
 
 
 
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