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    so i'm gay early 20's and I want advice from other gay guys. I just wanted to know has anyone had a long term relationship that is monogamous. I know a few gay guys but every single one is a slut who sleeps with anything and everything. Went on gaydar and that was even worse and it is just kind of depressing everyone just wants sex all the time not relationships. They would rather sleep with you rather than even talk to you at all whereas i prefer relationships. I just keep imagining myself old, alone and with load of cats has anyone had a successful long term relationship or are all guy gays sex obsessed *****:confused:
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    anyone?
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    I'm in the same situation, my gay friends say im frigid, but I just don't have the sluty mindset. It sounds girly but I know emotionally I can't just **** a complete stranger for the fun of it.

    For now im just waiting to see what happens, hopefully someone will like me enough to stop being a whore.
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    I know it might sound a bit patronising (as I'm not a gay guy) but there will be plenty out there who want long term, monogamous relations.. You only have to look at the number of civil partnerships to see that. You might be struggling through a combination of your age, where you're looking, and the kind of guy you're attracted to. A friend of mine has been living with his partner in London for a couple of years now, they're exclusive and in their early 20s, so it does happen
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    so i'm gay early 20's and I want advice from other gay guys. I just wanted to know has anyone had a long term relationship that is monogamous. I know a few gay guys but every single one is a slut who sleeps with anything and everything. Went on gaydar and that was even worse and it is just kind of depressing everyone just wants sex all the time not relationships. They would rather sleep with you rather than even talk to you at all whereas i prefer relationships. I just keep imagining myself old, alone and with load of cats has anyone had a successful long term relationship or are all guy gays sex obsessed *****:confused:
    I know a lot of gay men who are in long- term relationships or want to be. Gay websites are not usually the right place to find these men. Try mutual friends etc.

    By the way, when you said 'anyone?', you were not anon, just letting you know in case you didn't notice
 
 
 
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