help!!

Me and my bf have been goin out for a month and a half. We have got as far as french kissing and well i want to crank it up a notch if u get what i mean. I would like to reach sex eventually but not yet maybe in a few more months. What other more intimate ideas are there out there? I just wanna show him how much i love him. Any ideas would b helpful.

Reply 1

What age are you?

Reply 2

Amlea

1

uhm 17

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oh crap there goes my anonymity!!

Reply 3

foxo

17

So much for anonymity.

Reply 4

shinytoy

18

Anonymous

Me and my bf have been goin out for a month and a half. We have got as far as french kissing and well i want to crank it up a notch if u get what i mean. I would like to reach sex eventually but not yet maybe in a few more months. What other more intimate ideas are there out there? I just wanna show him how much i love him. Any ideas would b helpful.

firstly, when i saw 'help' i thought this was a serious problem. im guessing you are young and virgin. take it slow. think about the implications of sex before marriage. sex is for procreation. are you ready for a child? if not, if thinkgs go wrong, what will you do?

personallly i stop at kissing. there is other stuff like petting, hand jobs, blow jobs etc

Reply 5

Leigh

15

Was it necessary that the second post was anonymous?

Age is a factor I guess, but if you intend to sleep with him in a couple of months any, the only effect age will have on the replies is "don't do it, you're too young", so it may not achieve much!
Basically do whatever you're comfortable doing. Intimate doesn't have to always mean sexual; are you just doing all this (including the sex) to "show him how much you love him"? Because there are non-physical ways of doing that too. If that is your only motive, it might be worth considering some other things you can do and let the physical side develop on its own; sex should be a product of a good relationship, not the basis of it.

Reply 6

john!!

1

hmm... whats halfway between kissing and sex.
doesnt take much imagination!

Reply 7

jayne87

8

you dont have to do sexual things to show how much you love someone

but seeing as you have said you want to, just take it slowly and go through all the bases :smile:

Reply 8

john!!

1

shinytoy

firstly, when i saw 'help' i thought this was a serious problem. im guessing you are young and virgin. take it slow. think about the implications of sex before marriage. sex is for procreation. are you ready for a child? if not, if thinkgs go wrong, what will you do?

personallly i stop at kissing. there is other stuff like petting, hand jobs, blow jobs etc

are you implying that if she was married, sex would be okay?
marridge doesnt have anything to do with the consequences you mentioned.

What are the bases?

Anonymous

What are the bases?

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Christo

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come on people, this is H&R, not sex tips. But remember, do whatever you feel comfortable with. We can't tell you what that is, the pair of you have to decide for yourselves :smile:

Christo

You've won once you get to the sexagesimal base.