Guys how much sex is minimal enough for you?

Please explain the difference between masturbating and sex for men.

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TheBigI

Original post by IndigoRockGirl

Please explain the difference between masturbating and sex for men.

Well, I think there is a quite obvious difference...

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Original post by TheBigI

Well, I think there is a quite obvious difference...

Well it's not obvious to me, hence me asking. The end result is the same, so I really don't get the difference :dontknow:

Other than human contact I guess, but if he's thinking of hiring prostitutes, then he's not in love with the person, so it's not meaningful in that way. I don't see the big difference.

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britishgoose01

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different for different ppl

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Gigamonkey

bhoytoy please could you post questions like this in health and not relationships!

Troll much?

Original post by IndigoRockGirl

Please explain the difference between masturbating and sex for men.

masturbating you do to please yourself. thats it.

sex is not just about the penetration but the build up to the penetration, foreplay. sex you do to please both your girlfriend and yourself, you get pleasure in making her come, watching her body wriggle around in satisfaction.

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OP

Original post by IndigoRockGirl

Well it's not obvious to me, hence me asking. The end result is the same, so I really don't get the difference :dontknow:

Other than human contact I guess, but if he's thinking of hiring prostitutes, then he's not in love with the person, so it's not meaningful in that way. I don't see the big difference.

Well masturbation is easier as you only need to please yourelf, can chose what you and who you want to watch. Can do it when you like etc...

So you could say masturbation has many pros over sex.

ANd for me Id rather masturbate than have sex with a below par or average chick. Though Id let them give me head.

For me why then even hire a hooker? Well Id only hire a hot one prob eastern European. Touching a hot girl and getting head and seeing her naked is a lot more excitign and better than masturbation.

Also with a hooker I can use them to please my sex needs and not worry about pleasign them so its got a pro point there. I mean I love to get a hot girls pants down and all up in my face, suck on some big tittys,Also nothing comes close to the feelign of ejacualting on or in a hot girl. What guy woudlnt..1000x better than masturbation.

BUt yeh sex with an average girl vs masturbation to internet pron chicks. Id rather take the internet porn.

Though as I said I let subpar girls suck me.

this is also why I dont get much sex. I just dont desire to do avergae or subpar girls. Id rather mastrubate.

(edited 12 years ago)

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Original post by bhoytoy

Well masturbation is easier as you only need to please yourelf, can chose what you and who you want to watch. Can do it when you like etc...

So you could say masturbation has many pros over sex.

ANd for me Id rather masturbate than have sex with a below par or average chick. Though Id let them give me head.

For me why then even hire a hooker? Well Id only hire a hot one prob eastern European. Touching a hot girl and getting head and seeing her naked is a lot more excitign and better than masturbation.

Also with a hooker I can use them to please my sex needs and not worry about pleasign them so its got a pro point there. I mean I love to get a hot girls pants down and all up in my face, suck on some big tittys,Also nothing comes close to the feelign of ejacualting on or in a hot girl. What guy woudlnt..1000x better than masturbation.

BUt yeh sex with an average girl vs masturbation to internet pron chicks. Id rather take the internet porn.

Though as I said I let subpar girls suck me.

this is also why I dont get much sex. I just dont desire to do avergae or subpar girls. Id rather mastrubate.

Right, well I'm sure there are many 'sub- par' girls desperate to sleep with you. At least you let them 'suck you off', that's charitable of you.

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Original post by ihatecricket

masturbating you do to please yourself. thats it.

sex is not just about the penetration but the build up to the penetration, foreplay. sex you do to please both your girlfriend and yourself, you get pleasure in making her come, watching her body wriggle around in satisfaction.

Yeah, I understand that, but he's talking about prostitutes, and the fact that it's great he doesn't have to please them lol x

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OP

Original post by IndigoRockGirl

Yeah, I understand that, but he's talking about prostitutes, and the fact that it's great he doesn't have to please them lol x

not just that they can maybe let me do thigns or do them better than a ''normal'' girl.

Maybe I want 20 mins blowjob and deepthroat. etc...and shoot my load on her face, maybe it take me long time to find girl for that? but I can dial-a-ho

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sil3nt_cha0s

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Original post by IndigoRockGirl

Well it's not obvious to me, hence me asking. The end result is the same, so I really don't get the difference :dontknow:

Other than human contact I guess, but if he's thinking of hiring prostitutes, then he's not in love with the person, so it's not meaningful in that way. I don't see the big difference.

You're a bit of a moron, aren't you?

There is another human you're doing it with. Masturbation is lonely and boring. The difference is indeed very obvious like someone else pointed out.

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Original post by sil3nt_cha0s

You're a bit of a moron, aren't you?

There is another human you're doing it with. Masturbation is lonely and boring. The difference is indeed very obvious like someone else pointed out.

No, I'm not, actually. I would imagine that sex with a prostitute is lonely too. Just having a discussion about it, not trying to ruffle anyone's feathers.

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Original post by sil3nt_cha0s

You're a bit of a moron, aren't you?

There is another human you're doing it with. Masturbation is lonely and boring. The difference is indeed very obvious like someone else pointed out.

And my real question was, if guys absolutely physically need to have sex, i.e. if they need to ejaculate, wouldn't masturbation would achieve the same thing? What do guys who can't afford prostitutes do?

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OP

Original post by IndigoRockGirl

No, I'm not, actually. I would imagine that sex with a prostitute is lonely too. Just having a discussion about it, not trying to ruffle anyone's feathers.

Original post by IndigoRockGirl

And my real question was, if guys absolutely physically need to have sex, i.e. if they need to ejaculate, wouldn't masturbation would achieve the same thing? What do guys who can't afford prostitutes do?

What do you think they do? THey mastrubate or if they have low standards get a minger.

I dont do mingers hence id rather use a hot hooker.

For me sex is highly visual and physical touch arousal....Therefore I need hot girls.

And sex with a prostitute lonely? Well for me sex is not emotional. Its hardcore. If I feel lonely I dont have sex or get a hooker, I may masturbate though or I can phone a freind or get a dog or even a gf and not have sex. I dont see how you can relate sex and loneliness. Id phone a hooker when Im feeling horny.

Unless you think a lonely guy has sex with a prostitute as he meets no women? BUt the sex cant be lonely, well not for me?

Anyway this is just me. Like in the lecture hall I see hot girls Im ready to penetrate them there and then. Its animal instincts.

And would mastubration achieve the same thing as sex? At the end of the day after the ejacualtion yes to a point. In that sex drive diminishe,s if not there woudl be a lot of rapes but there still are rapes.

Off course if a man chose to never watch porn or mastruabte he would end up raping or goifn with some real ugly chick if he cant afford hookers that is

(edited 12 years ago)

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ihatecricket

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Original post by IndigoRockGirl

Yeah, I understand that, but he's talking about prostitutes, and the fact that it's great he doesn't have to please them lol x

I totally agree with you! I couldnt pay for sex, and then treat the woman like a piece of meat its so inhumane.

Sex for me is all about intimacy, and I dont imagine you can get that from a prostitute!!

This guy is an *rse hole

(edited 12 years ago)

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sarahthegemini

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Original post by bhoytoy

Well masturbation is easier as you only need to please yourelf, can chose what you and who you want to watch. Can do it when you like etc...

So you could say masturbation has many pros over sex.

ANd for me Id rather masturbate than have sex with a below par or average chick. Though Id let them give me head.

For me why then even hire a hooker? Well Id only hire a hot one prob eastern European. Touching a hot girl and getting head and seeing her naked is a lot more excitign and better than masturbation.

Also with a hooker I can use them to please my sex needs and not worry about pleasign them so its got a pro point there. I mean I love to get a hot girls pants down and all up in my face, suck on some big tittys,Also nothing comes close to the feelign of ejacualting on or in a hot girl. What guy woudlnt..1000x better than masturbation.

BUt yeh sex with an average girl vs masturbation to internet pron chicks. Id rather take the internet porn.

Though as I said I let subpar girls suck me.

this is also why I dont get much sex. I just dont desire to do avergae or subpar girls. Id rather mastrubate.

No, the reason you don't get much sex is that you're a desperate socially inept weirdo. And girls can sense this, a mile off.

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OP

Original post by ihatecricket

I totally agree with you! I couldnt pay for sex, and then treat the woman like a piece of meat its so inhumane.

Sex for me is all about intimacy, and I dont imagine you can get that from a prostitute!!

This guy is an *rse hole

well maybe I enjoy sex differently than you. I like it hardcore. Im not into kissing lovey dovey stuff. When girls tried that with me in past I dislike it tbh.

I prefer to do some real hardcore action.

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