The Student Room Group
Reply 1
sleepycat
i heard that my ex had a really bad car crush, he's in hospital now.
is that a good idea to visit him or not.


Perhaps send a get well card?

It depends how close you are.
It depends on your motivation for wanting to go (and the surrounding circumstances)...
Reply 3
if your still friends then go....
Reply 4
pixiepeep
Perhaps send a get well card?

It depends how close you are.


at first we were on a break, and then we break up
however, the things is, we still get something in between us
and he supports came down on weeken, but he didnt,
today his mate told me that he had car crushed on friday nite
i really don't know if it is ok to visit him or not
and i don't know how bad he is.
Reply 5
I think you should visit him.

Well, unless you're at the risk of conflicting with his current girlfriend or something.
Reply 6
foxo
I think you should visit him.

Well, unless you're at the risk of conflicting with his current girlfriend or something.
he hasnt got a gf at moment, we only break up for abt 2 weeks so
go then, it will make you feel better because your obviosuly worried about him. when someones in hospital that is close to you, you go despite any problems there were. my brothers best mate was in a serious crash just before christmas (hes only just come out of hospital and is in a weel chair as he cannot feel his legs) but they had a serious argument just before. my brother put this aside and visited without a second thought.
Reply 8
What does your heart say you should do? And was your gut feeling the same?

Would you want him to see you if you were in hospital?

Are you still close friends?

If the answer to the above qestions is yes, then perhaps you should go and see him.

However, if there's the possibility of a new girlfriend or a disapproving family there, take that into account as it may not be best for you to go and see him.

Perhaps send a get well soon card, and ask him to send you a letter / text / phonecall if he wants you to come up and is OK with that (or if he can't, get someone else to)

Just my views on the matter. Hope it helps :smile:

Luv Claire

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Just read the newer posts.

I'd say go and see him then. It will show that you don't just want him cos he's there, but that you do actually care for him.
Reply 9
Somebody
What does your heart say you should do? And was your gut feeling the same?

Would you want him to see you if you were in hospital?

Are you still close friends?

If the answer to the above qestions is yes, then perhaps you should go and see him.

However, if there's the possibility of a new girlfriend or a disapproving family there, take that into account as it may not be best for you to go and see him.

Perhaps send a get well soon card, and ask him to send you a letter / text / phonecall if he wants you to come up and is OK with that (or if he can't, get someone else to)

Just my views on the matter. Hope it helps :smile:

Luv Claire

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Just read the newer posts.

I'd say go and see him then. It will show that you don't just want him cos he's there, but that you do actually care for him.
thx. i know wot i should do know.