stinging after sex

i lost my virginity about 2 months ago and since then have had sex about 12 times; first 2 times i bled and since then its still hurt abit. Since i went on the pill and we stopped using condoms, the opening of my vagina has stung quite badly afterwards for about an hr. this has happened the last 3 times, is it anything to worry about?? thanks alot

Reply 1

Bluelight

13

Omg , did you not think you were gay in the other thread! stop posting stupid stuff! You've posted about 10 different sexual problems you've been having im sure you're not that unlucky!

Reply 2

Laursy

10

use condoms, never know what you might catch

Reply 3

iceman_jondoe

18

umm its a different person.............you can post anonymosly you know......

Reply 4

foxo

17

Bluelight

Omg , did you not think you were gay in the other thread! stop posting stupid stuff! You've posted about 10 different sexual problems you've been having im sure you're not that unlucky!

Different people can post under the "Anonymous" name. Dunce.

Reply 5

Dekota

Anonymous

i lost my virginity about 2 months ago and since then have had sex about 12 times; first 2 times i bled and since then its still hurt abit. Since i went on the pill and we stopped using condoms, the opening of my vagina has stung quite badly afterwards for about an hr. this has happened the last 3 times, is it anything to worry about?? thanks alot

So each time after sex, it's you who suffers the consequences and your boyfriend moves on? [e.g. goes down to the pub]

Reply 6

Anonymous

i lost my virginity about 2 months ago and since then have had sex about 12 times; first 2 times i bled and since then its still hurt abit. Since i went on the pill and we stopped using condoms, the opening of my vagina has stung quite badly afterwards for about an hr. this has happened the last 3 times, is it anything to worry about?? thanks alot

It has happened to me too, and its usually when I'm not turned on enough and sometimes it stings then. But if you're not using condoms, you might want to check out the idea that you're fella may have passed an STD on to you, so it may be worth getting you both tested for things like chlamydia and such like.

But its probably due to not being turned on enough and friction burns.

Reply 7

pumpkin7

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Bluelight

Omg , did you not think you were gay in the other thread! stop posting stupid stuff! You've posted about 10 different sexual problems you've been having im sure you're not that unlucky!

uh, you do know that it isn't the same person? you can just post as anonymous so people don't know who you are... aww... poor newbie.

as for OP.. seems like you are being dried out a bit during teh sex. sounds nasty, but you need to try and get 'wet' down there which will make everything much easier.. you will probably find that at the moment, because maybe you are a bit nervous about sex, that you aren't 'turned on' enough.. his penis is then rubbing inside you and drying you out, making you a bit 'raw' if you know what i mean. relax, and you should be fine. maybe a bit of foreplay would help too.

as for the condom thing.. maybe you should both get checked out for STI's.. the pill doesn't protect you from those.. :smile: