Whats going on?!?!

Ok, I split up with my ex not long ago, just over a month now, and for the past week or so i've been getting pretty friendly with another guy. This other guy is kinda friendly with my ex, not in a big way at all, but they kno the same ppl, and very occasionaly would cross paths.

I met this guy and he asked for my phone number one night, which I gave him, and the next day he rang me, we went for a drink together and then he went to work, he came over to mine a few days later, and ended up staying over - nothing happened just a bit a kissin We kept sorta seeing each other, i'd see him at work - he works at the club we always go to - and he would always smile and give me a kiss over the bar etc. He's also took me out for dinner, and we had a great time then.

Past few days though, he's been a bit off with me, not really texting me or anything, but when I see him its all fine, he just seems to kinda forget about me when i'm not around.

I want to ask him whats goin on with us, like, are we seeing each other or what. I know what I want - which is something pretty chilled, but i want him to know i'm not interested in anyone else right now.

Do you reckon he likes me, and actually wants anythin to do with me? He's fine when he's with me, but kinda off with me when he's not.. I just dont get it!!!

I also think some of my ex's mates might have told him to be careful of me, or somethin stupid like that, and the fact that he knows my ex could be putting him off, maybe?

I just dont get it, I have no idea whats going on!! Anyone else have any ideas? Input and whatever is greatly appreciated!! Cheers guys and gals.