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1st Relationship With Another Girl

Hey... well, basically the thread title says it all. I am bisexual, but I have never had a relationship with another girl and I really want to. The only problem is... I'm just a bit daunted by the whole prospect.. Where can I meet girls who like girls? I want to find someone who is on the same wave length as me, someone to have a lot of fun with as well as quite a serious relationship. It may be hard though, because I'm really into certain things that may not be totally mainstream (I like drugs for a start...) and I'm worried that'll put a lot of girls off. I've had relationships with men like this but for some reason the idea of finding a girl is really scary!!!
Gay clubs? If that's not an option you can always try internet dating (cheesy I know) but then you can take time getting to know her without the whole risk of "oh my gosh she lives down the road and was only on there for a laugh" which might be a bit embarassing if you're not openly bi.
Reply 2
Anonymous
Hey... well, basically the thread title says it all. I am bisexual, but I have never had a relationship with another girl and I really want to. The only problem is... I'm just a bit daunted by the whole prospect.. Where can I meet girls who like girls? I want to find someone who is on the same wave length as me, someone to have a lot of fun with as well as quite a serious relationship. It may be hard though, because I'm really into certain things that may not be totally mainstream (I like drugs for a start...) and I'm worried that'll put a lot of girls off. I've had relationships with men like this but for some reason the idea of finding a girl is really scary!!!



thats because women are nightmares, and yourself being one of them know firsthand what they're like! :wink:
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El Scotto

thats because women are nightmares, and yourself being one of them know firsthand what they're like! :wink:
I dont think thats v helpful, I dont know where to suggest you meet other bi or lesbian girls tbh. just give it time and you'l meet someone. dont do it because you want to be able to say you have had a relationship with another girl
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Gay bars are obviously a great place to go, where abouts do you live?