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how can i prove a girl's bf was cheating on her
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this guy dated me for a month and a 1/2 and dumped me when he realised i wasnt going to have sex with him. (he said he wanted a 'mature relationship' including sex and i said i didnt want the same thing)
he then landed on me that he has a long term gf for the past year who isnt at uni with us, and has no idea of his cheating.i know im not the only girl he has cheated on her wth - beofre me i saw him kiss a girl i didnt know her.
he says he will tell his gf about us, a yr from now or after she has lost her virginity to him
i got his long term gfs number and confessed the whole thing (she doesnt know me). she thought i'd made it up so im looking to prove im being honest. i told her she had to know he is a playa before she loses her virginity with him
the evidence i had was i could describe distinguishing features on his chest (shaven, a large mole); i said she can ask my friends if they had seen us kissing etc; i reiterated personal details about his private sex life to her (eg number of peopel he slept with etc)
but he's trying to say a)he never even kissed me b)im making it up to break them up cos i fancy him
how can i prove what im saying is true?
this guy dated me for a month and a 1/2 and dumped me when he realised i wasnt going to have sex with him. (he said he wanted a 'mature relationship' including sex and i said i didnt want the same thing)
he then landed on me that he has a long term gf for the past year who isnt at uni with us, and has no idea of his cheating.i know im not the only girl he has cheated on her wth - beofre me i saw him kiss a girl i didnt know her.
he says he will tell his gf about us, a yr from now or after she has lost her virginity to him
i got his long term gfs number and confessed the whole thing (she doesnt know me). she thought i'd made it up so im looking to prove im being honest. i told her she had to know he is a playa before she loses her virginity with him
the evidence i had was i could describe distinguishing features on his chest (shaven, a large mole); i said she can ask my friends if they had seen us kissing etc; i reiterated personal details about his private sex life to her (eg number of peopel he slept with etc)
but he's trying to say a)he never even kissed me b)im making it up to break them up cos i fancy him
how can i prove what im saying is true?
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Difficult - maybe trick him somehow? Make sure some of your friends are with you, but out of the way. Setup a camera/webcam etc, then get him to pull his pants down for some "loving". Record/take a picture of his bits and send it to his long term with the message
"Do you really want to do this?"
"Do you really want to do this?"
How about you don't get involved and leave it upto him? Swear down... he cheated, he is in the wrong. But how do you expect someone to believe you when you ring them with something as random as this?
You're a control freak.
We all have to make mistakes; you've done all you can
. This girl is probably in denial, and so all your attempts to make her see the truth, will only be pushing her closer to this pricks bed. Leave her be, hopefully she'll realise he's a prick.
We all have to make mistakes; you've done all you can
. This girl is probably in denial, and so all your attempts to make her see the truth, will only be pushing her closer to this pricks bed. Leave her be, hopefully she'll realise he's a prick.
I think you did the right thing. Obviously it might not all work out, as we don't live in a fantasy world where these things do. But it is better than the "hear no evil, see no evil" approach.
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And who is going to believe this guy? I would seriously stop prolonging the situation, tell those who know you the truth and forget about those who don't. And really, who at uni is going to gossip about who you lost your virginity to when everyone else did that at school? people have more important things to talk about than the state of your hymen and what it means to you.
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And who is going to believe this guy? I would seriously stop prolonging the situation, tell those who know you the truth and forget about those who don't. And really, who at uni is going to gossip about who you lost your virginity to when everyone else did that at school? people have more important things to talk about than the state of your hymen and what it means to you.
no itsa that i only date christians who support my belief in no sex before marriage. my religion is important to me, and if people say im lying about it, by next bf will think i eith had sex with a guy before, so should with him, or that im a liar.
if she doesnt believe you dont go there! at the end of the day you tried your best and if she doesnt want to know then thats her problem. trying to get someone to believe something they dont want to know is pointless and a waste of time, you can either sit back and hope that she doesnt find out so she doesnt get hurt or that she will find out and realise how stupid she has been. carrying on will just get you more and more frustrated and will amuse him as you fail. text her one last time explaining everything and then just leave it, its her life and her decision end of
You did your best, and though she doesn't believe you, you've put the seed of doubt in her mind, and hopefully she will finally realise what his true motives are.
I think you should leave it now, if you persist it may cheapen what you said (in her eyes), and you may end up looking like a scorned and incredibly jealous ex.
Hold your head high and deny it if he spreads rumours about you, you've nothing to hide and everyone else will realise that too.
Hope everything turns out ok, and my advice helps you.
I think you should leave it now, if you persist it may cheapen what you said (in her eyes), and you may end up looking like a scorned and incredibly jealous ex.
Hold your head high and deny it if he spreads rumours about you, you've nothing to hide and everyone else will realise that too.
Hope everything turns out ok, and my advice helps you.
I think you did a really nice thing in trying to help this girl, It would be awful if she was to lose it to him if he was playing her so much and I think you really gave your best. The girl doesnt want to believe what your saying, But I think you would of implanted some element of doubt in her mind at least, She will start to think abut it now and hopefully she will see herself what he is up to.. Im afraid it might be the only way she will believe it but you did your best
As for at uni, The guys obviously a total sleeze, and others will realise that. Boastintg that you apparently slept with him is a sad act and most people will probably ignore him anyway. As long as you know and the people that counts then ignore him! He deserves as much.
As for at uni, The guys obviously a total sleeze, and others will realise that. Boastintg that you apparently slept with him is a sad act and most people will probably ignore him anyway. As long as you know and the people that counts then ignore him! He deserves as much.
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