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    Hey guys,

    I feel really bad for moaning all the time but i feel really crap. I have posted a couple of threads on PCOS and hypothyroid and regardless of whether they are making me feel anxious and depressed - i am! I really want to feel happy cos i know i have a lot of stuff to look forward to yet i cant help feeling that ive somehow mucked it up/am going to muck it up.

    Any advice on how to make me feel better?
    Also, anyone out there had a bf/gf with anxiety/depression/going through a bad time - Did u cope? How did u feel? I know that those around those going through this stuff do suffer a lot too.

    I dont want to have noone left as i really need these people

    Please help,

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    I went out with a guy who was seriously, seriously depressed and that sucked. I always tried to cheer him up, but it was summer then so we could go sit in the park and we'd cuddle all day you know?

    But why not go and see your friends? they are the best at cheering you up, and hopefully youll be able to have a laugh, and eat lots...you won't put any weight on with your over-active thryoid
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    If only - i have an underactive thyroid! so, i will put on weight !!!! But thanks for the advice Why did u split up tho? cos of his depression? Im assuming u have split up - correct me if im wrong

    Thanks

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    Oh no we split up because he patronised me so much and it was driving me mental..and plus that relationship got a bit boring.

    Seriously though it was nothing to do with his depression, if anything that made the relationship better because I felt important because I was the person he'd turn to.
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    Aww that's really sweet. So, u didn't ever find his neediness rather clingy and perhaps annoying?

    xxx
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    I'd get annoyed if he phoned me at 3am and asked why i was quiet...but i have little comprehension of anything in the mornings.
    I always kept my phone on vibrate under my pillow, and i still do that now infact, just incase anyone needs me at night...i dont know why I still do it...its been a while since anyone called/texted me then (Thank God.)

    He was terrified of me leaving him, and so he was quite clingy, and if i wasn't online or something for a few minutes he'd call me and he'd always call my friends if i forgot my phone because he thought i was ignoring him and stuff. But that was just his paranoia and you just learn to live with it.

    At that time I was feeling pretty unloved aswel, so to have someone who clinged to me, and felt that I was worth something was good actually, so it worked both ways in our relationship.

    If you have a guy who cares enough about you, he won't mind you being depressed and needing him. I'm an EXTREMELY happy person, I don't know why but it takes a LOT to bring me down. So I figured that I may aswel give him some of my happiness and he gives me some of his depression to neturalise me.
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    'So I figured that I may aswel give him some of my happiness and he gives me some of his depression to neturalise me.'

    That is so lovely! Thanks for ur comments they have been really helpful.

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    (Original post by Silly woo)
    'So I figured that I may aswel give him some of my happiness and he gives me some of his depression to neturalise me.'

    That is so lovely! Thanks for ur comments they have been really helpful.

    xxx
    If you ever wanna talk, just PM me.
 
 
 
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