Never takes his top off!

Ok i know this isnt really that big a deal but whenever im with my boyfriend he never and i mean NEVER takes off his top, it was ok i guess at the beginning but now it is really starting to bug me. Ive told him I don't care what he looks like and I understand that he may feel self concious but we've been going out for 2 months so come on!

Any suggestions on what i can do?

Set fire to it.

OP

Golden Maverick

Set fire to it.

To all his tops?

Reply 3

Mangaroo

12

maybe a classic incentive.. ill show you mine if you show me yours =P

Reply 4

Beekeeper

13

What do you mean? Why/When do you want him to take his top off? :confused:

Reply 5

Riddy

Beekeeper

What do you mean? Why/When do you want him to take his top off? :confused:

Do you mean his jumper or t shirt?

Reply 6

Anonymous #1

OP

Mangaroo

maybe a classic incentive.. ill show you mine if you show me yours =P

Nah doesn't quite work as we've got passed that stage, I could be butt naked but he will still have his top on.

Beekeeper

What do you mean? Why/When do you want him to take his top off? :confused:

When we're together in bed.

Reply 7

Anonymous #1

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Riddy

Do you mean his jumper or t shirt?

T shirt, but what difference does it make?

Reply 8

lovelee-jublee

12

My boyfriend was the same, so I asked him what it was he felt sensitive about. Try and get him to talk to you about it...maybe he thinks he's fat, has no chest hair or too much chest hair, a third nipple!? The slightest thing could be bugging him, so try to find out what it is, and reassure him that whatever it is, it doesn't bother you.

Reply 9

Mangaroo

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if hes got manboobs/fat then it probbly gets him down everytime you ask...maybe its better you dont see, and tell him to go to the gym :P

Reply 10

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lil_lee

My boyfriend was the same, so I asked him what it was he felt sensitive about. Try and get him to talk to you about it...maybe he thinks he's fat, has no chest hair or too much chest hair, a third nipple!? The slightest thing could be bugging him, so try to find out what it is, and reassure him that whatever it is, it doesn't bother you.

Ive tried talking to him but he says its nothing, ive tried tackiling and stripping him once, but didnt quite work.

Reply 11

Anonymous #1

OP

Mangaroo

if hes got manboobs/fat then it probbly gets him down everytime you ask...maybe its better you dont see, and tell him to go to the gym :P

very sensitive!

Reply 12

Anonymous #1

OP

I don't care if he has manboobs and im pretty sure he doesn't coz ive neva felt any.

Reply 13

hitmanuk2k

If you were uncomfortable doing something, you wouldn't expect your boyfriend to be pushy and make you do it. So just respect the fact he has a problem, for whatever reason, with taking his top off. I'm sure he'll get over it eventually.

Reply 14

lovelee-jublee

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Anonymous

Ive tried talking to him but he says its nothing, ive tried tackiling and stripping him once, but didnt quite work.

Ah, so there IS something wrong!!! Well you really need to try and find out what it is. He's trying to brush something off that he obviously isn't very happy about. Tell him it's making you upset that he's not telling you what it is. Even if it is nothing, you can still talk about it.