What's he actually thinking?
There's a guy who I find attractive but I'm not looking for a relationship with. We haven't had sex but have had several 'liaisons' which have processed from a cuddle to a blow job. (We never discuss these unless they're happening). I have expressed a wish to have casual sex but every time he makes excuses. Is he just using me and if so why doesn't he want sex? Or is he purposely not giving me my own way in an attempt to keep me keen? I'm so confused! 
(sorry if in wrong place!)
(sorry if in wrong place!)
Just bluntly ask him what the deal is - are you friends with beenfits or is he regretting these incidents. Otherwise you're just going to torture yourself.
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