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Reply 1
aww bless. dont worry - it really DOES come naturally. when kissing normally, open your mouth wider and let the guy take the lead. if in doubt, copy what he does because its probably what he likes
Reply 2
um... do people still call it french kissing?

Watch Cruel Intentions. Just remember, too much tongue is a bad thing.
Anonymous
Hi, any advice for this?

Less is more; don't shove your tongue in as though you're trying to vacuum clean his/her mouth. Be slower rather than faster and close your eyes. Everyone kisses differently so be aware of what the other person's doing too.
Reply 4
Yeh, just go with the flow! It seems daunting at first, but after a couple of seconds you'll feel like you're a pro!!!
Don't open your mouth too wide. Sometimes people open their mouths too wide and you feel almost like you're going to fall in! Much more passionate if the other person can press comfortably against your lips with a little tongue action.
Try Aussie kissing instead. The same as french kissing but down under.
what is french kissing
French kisses are kisses in which you also use your
tongues. (That's why you part your lips slightly.)
So, after you've started kissing, the next step
is that either he will slip his tongue into your
mouth or you'll slip yours into his. Don't let your
tongue go limp but move it around his, or playfully
push his tongue out with yours, then let him
push your tongue back into your mouth, and so on.

Repeat this until you get tired of it (which you never will!)
or until your annoying little brother starts taping you
with the camcorder and threatening to tell your parents.
See www.how-to-beat-up-your-little-brother.com for details!
Reply 9
using tongue when kissing....i doubt it's still called french kissing,maybe frenching but not french kissing lol i dunnoo....does that mean i'm that old?! :eek:
Reply 10
Like has been said, just go with it. Everyone does/likes different things, so there's no point practising or worrying or anything, you'll be fine!
Reply 11
segat1
um... do people still call it french kissing?


We still call it snogging where I live:p:

As people said, don't worry about it. We've all been there and it does come naturally.
Nowadays it think its mainly called 'pulling' or you might say 'did you get off with *****?' Provided Anonymous is from the UK.
Reply 13
Dude
We still call it snogging where I live:p:

:ditto:
Reply 14
you could open your eyes slightly for like a second to see if they have theirs closed and to go like 'omfg, i'm kissing this damn sexy person'.

btw.. french kissing = snogging?
yes french kissing = snogging lol
French kissing is so called because it was an alternative to sex, when the French were having a population explosion. Citizens were encouraged to kiss in this way instead, so they could still have pleasure, and express their feelings for one another, without increasing the population.

And yes, french kissing = snogging.
Reply 17
The Mudman
French kissing is so called because it was an alternative to sex, when the French were having a population explosion. Citizens were encouraged to kiss in this way instead, so they could still have pleasure, and express their feelings for one another, without increasing the population.

And yes, french kissing = snogging.



interesting fact.

stupid french doing it like bunnies all day long.

oo.
Anonymous
Hi, any advice for this?



Do it as much as humanely possible (but not to the extent it interferes wiht your work or social life!) Love it..free and fun..and practice makes perfect! Just relax, let yourself get lost in the moment, vary your speed/pace, little bites don't go a miss as long as you don't draw blood (ouch!!), leaning back and withdrawing a bit/teasing, take the lead or let him or her...woah so many combination how can you ever get bored!!

(You may realise I like kissing from the contents of this post, which is why being single is a such a pain in the arse!):biggrin:
It helps (and feels so much better) if you actually give a damn about the person who you are kissing and that you are attracted to them! The rest of it just happens, i promise! I used to worry so much about this sort of thing and then it just happened and worked fine!

Lou
xxx