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i am a 17 year old male, i have recently been going out clubbing and find that most of my mates can pull on a night out but i can not, i would not say that i am the best looking guy but i am better looking then some of my mates. Does any one have any clue what i should do to pull i know confidance is important but what can i do to make a girl interested in me.

Reply 1

Anonymous #2

its probably because youre actually a DECENT guy, and the only girls you'll find in a club are complete whores! (no offence to any girls who go clubbing, of course). Try looking somewhere else, and building up a proper relationship. Your mates probably just have a string of one night stands. I think you'll find you're better than that.

Reply 2

Mrs_F

15

Anonymous

the only girls you'll find in a club are complete whores! (no offence to any girls who go clubbing, of course).

Oh oh!

Reply 3

Segat1

16

roger that, lynsey *holds breath*

Reply 4

Anonymous #2

lets not start an argument now, it was purely a matter of opinion :wink:

Reply 5

gringalet

12

Quite amusing how you said the only girls in clubs are complete whores, but you don't want to offend them...

Reply 6

El Scotto

15

Anonymous

its probably because youre actually a DECENT guy, and the only girls you'll find in a club are complete whores! (no offence to any girls who go clubbing, of course). Try looking somewhere else, and building up a proper relationship. Your mates probably just have a string of one night stands. I think you'll find you're better than that.

so even if he does start to go looking for girls in librarys or bingo or wherever you recommend, it doesnt really help him much chatting to them much does it?

To the original poster, you have to start of somewhere. and start of giving a girl a smile, then go for trial and error with some really bad chat up lines.
If they're bad enough and comedy enough you'll break the ice enough to start chatting.

better still just go up and introduce yourself. Whats the worst that can happen? you wont see her again? well you wouldnt see her again anyway if ya dont try. so its a no lose situation.

Reply 7

QT06

Just be yourself, and every one is gonna like you boo :biggrin:

aint nothin to worry bout :biggrin:

trust me, just be you...and dont try to be sumthin you re not.
GOOD LUCK. :biggrin:

Reply 8

Mrs_F

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El Scotto

so even if he does start to go looking for girls in librarys or bingo or wherever you recommend, it doesnt really help him much chatting to them much does it?

Reply 9

Samsara

He can wait till he finds the right girl :biggrin:

Reply 10

sweetface.

Anonymous

its probably because youre actually a DECENT guy, and the only girls you'll find in a club are complete whores! (no offence to any girls who go clubbing, of course). Try looking somewhere else, and building up a proper relationship. Your mates probably just have a string of one night stands. I think you'll find you're better than that.

Exactly, yeah why should feel the need to get some girl stright away. Personaly i don't like the clubbing scene, i am 18. But to be compleatly honest i don't think you will be able to "pull" a nice girl in a club. You should look else where.

Reply 11

Segat1

16

Hey! I'm a nice girl. I go clubbing. I just don't dress like a whore!

Thank you very much.

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