ANOTHER Sex Problem!

Right this is going to sound really silly, and most people have probably made a thread about similar problems but here goes..
A few weeks ago i lost my virginity to my experienced bf, and most of the times sex has been great ! Except on the occasions when it isnt so good its because im not wet enough, although i am enjoying it we have to stop as it is too difficult!
I was just wondering is this common ? And guys would you be put off if this happened? Any ideas what i can do to try and improve things?
Thanx a lot xxx

KY jelly

Joey12

KY jelly

ditto. and a lot more foreplay!

Reply 3

Leigh

15

Yup, more foreplay is the trick.
If you have problems naturally lubricating, there's plenty of fun alternatives!

Reply 4

La Trampa

18

more foreplay, lube and if he's not wet,give him a bit of oral or just suck on him for a bit and then let him go in a bit moist.

Reply 5

Anonymous #1

OP

Is it a bad thing and if this happened to your gf sometimes would you think that she wasnt enjoying it?

Reply 6

La Trampa

18

no. i'm a girl and my bf doesn't mind.

Reply 7

Leigh

15

It happens with me and my girlfriend sometimes. I never think it's because she's not enjoying it, I just know she's not quite ready yet. It's not an issue really.

Reply 8

Anonymous #1

OP

Ohh so this is quite a common problem for bf and gf?

Reply 9

La Trampa

18

yeh. he can get a bit try or the girl can sometimes,it's ok to tell him we need to moisten up a bit. if it's him that's a bit dry he'll ask u if u could moisten it a bit,coz i think it hurts for them.

Reply 10

El Scotto

15

Anonymous

Right this is going to sound really silly, and most people have probably made a thread about similar problems but here goes..
A few weeks ago i lost my virginity to my experienced bf, and most of the times sex has been great ! Except on the occasions when it isnt so good its because im not wet enough, although i am enjoying it we have to stop as it is too difficult!
I was just wondering is this common ? And guys would you be put off if this happened? Any ideas what i can do to try and improve things?
Thanx a lot xxx

tell your boyfriend hes ment to warm the oven before putting the chicken in.

Reply 11

Lauren Hart

3

Hey, this is quite a common problem, the thing is that sometimes people tend to skip the bit thats actually really important - the foreplay. Ive been there myself, especially if you really really enjoy sex and want to skip the foreplay. The thing to do is just slow yourselves down, and make sure he takes an appropriate amount of time getting you wet, coz you'll just end up sore and wont look forward to sex. and trust me, friction burns down south, bad bad thing. You both just need to slow down and make sure that you take the time before hand to get you BOTH ready. On the plus side, you're getting twice the fun, and in my experience guys are happiest when they're giving you pleasure (the ones that are worth it that is) so he wont be feeling left out.

Reply 12

Segat1

16

quite simply. the more time spent on foreplay the better it is. I recommend you spend a whole bunch of time doing just foreplay, until you can't stand it anymore.

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