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    So, there is this guy that i spent loads of time together with, especially during exam period when we studied together. He used to invite me over to his place, and we just used to hang out.

    At one point, i really started to like him and i thought there was a possibility that he did too, since we used to literally spend 8 hours together during the day, and then phone calls and texts on top of that. When i told him i had a crush on him, he said he'd call me later on in the day because he was running a few errands. So he must have thought about this because he called me past midnight that day.

    He replied saying that he didnt want to lose our friendship, what we already had, and so if i was ok with it, he'd be willing to look past it and move on like normal. I replied saying i agree with him, the friends thing can get messy. Im going to be honest, i was shocked at first and then kind of hurt because it made me feel like i wasnt good enough for him or something, you know!

    So after a very brief period of not talking to each other as much, we now we are really good friends again, back to where we used to be. And he has invited me over to his place again for movie nights and stuff repeatedly. So now im thinking, he probably just really likes me a friend; a person to be around with??

    Awww . Yeah, I think he likes having you around and enjoys your company. Sometimes friendship is better than nothing and you both seem to get along as good friends. I wouldn't ruin that if I was you. He seems like a good guy as he doesn't want things to get awkward and wants you to stick around being his friend. Don't worry, I'm sure you are good enough for him. Don't think like that .

    Besides I think you felt hurt and shocked because you thought he felt the same way as you, and you felt that it wasn't returned.
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