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    there was a bloke i went out with for a few months last year and we meet each other near ewverytime we see each other but he doesnt want anything serious. i see him all the time and i think i just keep falling into a trap. his friends tell me he likes me but not in a serious way. am i wasting my time?
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    (Original post by hugatree)
    Yes.
    Ditto. Then again, this seems to be the case with a significant proportion of young people...
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    Ditto. Then again, this seems to be the case with a significant proportion of young people...
    True... but they all date them anyway. :rolleyes: Depends if you're looking for a steady, long term rel. or a 'teenager relationship' that lasts approx. 4 months.
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    True... but they all date them anyway. :rolleyes:
    Oh I know...

    (Original post by hugatree)
    Depends if you're looking for a steady, long term rel. or a 'teenager relationship' that lasts approx. 4 months.
    Nice phrase there.
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    Nice phrase there.
    Why thank you.

    Personally I'm one of the 'get a long term bf and marry him' type of girls and couldn't date someone I didn't love to bits. 3-6 month relationships are not my thing. My best friend's the opposite and is happy that way though, so it's up to you to decide whether you're wasting your time or not.
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    Personally I'm one of the 'get a long term bf and marry him' type of girls and couldn't date someone I didn't love to bits. 3-6 month relationships are not my thing.
    Ditto.

    (Original post by hugatree)
    My best friend's the opposite and is happy that way though, so it's up to you to decide whether you're wasting your time or not.
    Depends what the OP has in mind when she says "serious".
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    i mean that he says hes not ready for a serious relationship. but im not really wanting anything serious. its just we see each other at least every month but im not sure if its the right thing to keep going back am i being used?
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    i mean that he says hes not ready for a serious relationship. but im not really wanting anything serious. its just we see each other at least every month but im not sure if its the right thing to keep going back am i being used?
    Cant say for sure, but it appears that way...
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    am i being used?
    Not really, cos you just said you don't want anything serious either.
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    (Original post by hugatree)
    Not really, cos you just said you don't want anything serious either.
    Thats true, but how many "flings" can you have with the same person?:rolleyes:
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    Thats true, but how many "flings" can you have with the same person?:rolleyes:
    Depends how much time there is in between.
    Seriously girl, it's up to you to decide whether you want more of him or more of a relationship.
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    Depends how much time there is in between.
    Haha, these people must be playing it like a game...
 
 
 
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