Why are women sluts and deny it?

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I will reply to everybody tommorrow but i really need to get to bed have college tommorrow!

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Reply 61

Schmucks

Original post by Lucia.

I flirt a lot (not with people who have gfs though). It doesn't mean I'm up for it all the time. :rolleyes:

I never blame a guy or say that he's leading me on...I've probably been more guilty of that myself :redface:

(please don't chastise me too much because I've decided to be honest)

I'm imagining a cat with a chastity belt now, due to your avatar. Worrying.

Reply 62

gingerben

this is one thing that really wrecks my head
why if a girl sleeps around a bit shes a slut
if a lad does it hes a player and doesnt get the **** girls get

Reply 63

chuckaduckitskat

Culture and religion and all that.
Its always been like that, and the way for women to actually enjoy their lives with sex is to lie and decieve so they dont get burned for it.
Women have always been so downpowered and it sucks but there isnt much we can do about it.
I got burned for being a slut cos I had a early start to my sexual activeness :L But I dont have my tits out or wear incredibly short skirts or jump on every guy I see. Yeah I made some past mistakes with my sex life, hence why I dont want to tell people every detail about it, but I would be happy to tell a guy if I was comfortable telling him.

Thats the reason why girls decieve and tell lies to guys about their sex lives, cos guys tell everyone else and ruins that girls chances to find a nice guy. Whereas if she felt like she could trust that guy, maybe she would tell you about her sex life rather than being a 'slut' -.-

I hate the word slut. So judgmental of a girl, cos you base their personailty on the amount of people they slept with. But you dont know why she slept with them, all could have been relationships, or maybe shes enjoys sex and took the oppurtunity for it, like any other guy would do -.-

Reply 64

newts2k

Original post by alawhisp

It's only different for a guy if he isn't very good looking and if he is punching above his weight. Good looking guys can get laid all the time if they want to, and if average males went for average females they'd get laid more often too.. It's fairly simple really..

If you're good looking as a guy, you certainly can't get it all the time if you're single, you don't get a lot of women who put out in clubs as they often have their guards up, unless you went for a really unattractive woman, who average looking guys can get with as well.

Reply 65

sarahthegemini

Probably because 'slut' is such a derogatory term.

Reply 66

KJ_the_crazy_chick

Original post by gorila7

Well it's annoying if they act all innocent and basically lie about how many people they've got off with and more to convey this " lady like" image when in reality they're are getting hammered more than a nail by blokes they hardly know on the basis of their looks and their ( the females) stupid vanity

Why do you care? It doesn't effect you. Besides people only have sex with people they are attracted to.

Reply 67

gorila7

Original post by KJ_the_crazy_chick

Why do you care? It doesn't effect you. Besides people only have sex with people they are attracted to.

How does it not affect me? And okay fair, and it's okay i am attractive so its all good babe x

Reply 68

KJ_the_crazy_chick

Original post by gorila7

How does it not affect me? And okay fair, and it's okay i am attractive so its all good babe x

Okay how does it affect you?

Reply 69

gorila7

Original post by KJ_the_crazy_chick

Okay how does it affect you?

Coz it impacts on my life gorgeous

Reply 70

sarahthegemini

It's becoming increasingly obvious that OP is an immature boy who has had ONE bad experience with a woman cheating and therefore thinks all women do so.

Reply 71

KJ_the_crazy_chick

Original post by gorila7

Coz it impacts on my life gorgeous

How? You haven't answered the question.

Reply 72

Jaidenh

Original post by gingerben

this is one thing that really wrecks my head
why if a girl sleeps around a bit shes a slut
if a lad does it hes a player and doesnt get the **** girls get

yay! a fella that sees sense

Reply 73

kingme

Original post by gingerben

this is one thing that really wrecks my head
why if a girl sleeps around a bit shes a slut
if a lad does it hes a player and doesnt get the **** girls get

tah dah - explanation

Reply 74

gorila7

Original post by sarahthegemini

It's becoming increasingly obvious that OP is an immature boy who has had ONE bad experience with a woman cheating and therefore thinks all women do so.