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Basically the past couple of months nothing has being going right for me and now its all getting a bit too much. My parents dont really get on with each other and have always argued for as long as i can remember and to help avoid this i do a lot around the house (my mum hates being left to do evrything and my dads hardly ever in). Sometimes things get really bad between them and and its quite hard on me cz i have to try looking after my brothers and that was the reason I split up with my boyfriend a few months ago. I was too scared to let him be there for me cz if he ever wznt i knew i cldnt cope however now i need him more than ever bt hes moved on cz i hurt him so much.

Iv also been rejected from the course that i really want to do I cant imagine doing anything else with my life and that whole dream seems so hard to get to now. I have been planning to take a year out and reapply bt this means staying at home for longer.

All of my classes seem really hard this year and i feel like i dnt knw whats happening most of the time.

One of my friends wz going to take me to the prom and hes been a good friend to me so i wz quite looking forward to it. Then I found out a few days ago that he doesnt want to go with me and that he asked my best friend to go with him instead. She told me she wanted to go with him so I said it was fie but its really upset me. I turned down my ex boyfriends offer to go as friends a month or so ago as i'd promised this other guy. Now everyone else seems to have dates and its all getting to me.

I really want to leave jst go anywhere else so i dnt have to be here coz i dnt think iv gt much to stay for nemre

Reply 1

Mark S

It'll get better, it may get worse before it gets better, but things will start to happen and eventually you'll feel a lot better. Maybe it feels like too much right now, but it wont last, there's always something good waiting around the corner :wink:

Reply 2

rachelrainbow32

Awwwwww, poor you.
Why is it when one bad thing happens in life about five all join it.
Good luck with whatever happens- it has to get better :smile:

Just try and grit your teeth and get through it it will make you a stronger person.

Reply 3

Scarlett_Jewel

definitely: that which doesn't kill you, and all that.

If nothing that you're doing is going right, then find something that does.

Change your habits, take up a new hobby, sport, read new books, go different places, whatever. It'll not only keep your mind occupied, but you might meet some not-so-arseholeish people in the process