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Reply 2
Depends if you see yourselfs as long term.
Reply 3
hitmanuk2k
She never seems to understand what I am saying... anything I can do? :confused:


What kind of advice are you looking for?:confused: I dunno, dumb down the conversation?
Reply 4
maybe you don't talk clearly?
ye, maybe you're on different wavelengths, like you say one thing that means another to her, like speaking spanish to a frenchman
if not, maybe she isnt for you?
Reply 6
Maybe she thinks you prefer the dumb and innocent type, maybe its an act, one big conpsiracy, who knows..
speak really slowly and loudly, as if you were talking to someone from mars. i have to speak to my mother like that sometimes....and sometimes i do think she's from mars
Reply 8
colombi_ana
speak really slowly and loudly, as if you were talking to someone from mars. i have to speak to my mother like that sometimes....and sometimes i do think she's from mars


Then she'll think your treating her like a bit of tard, which in turn wont go down very well, either way, he cant win.
I think that he has two choices, either choose to leave her because you dont think it will work, or you find a better way to communicate. As to some of the comments on here, you people need to be a little less crude and a little more human, she's a person too you know!
Reply 10
hitmanuk2k
She never seems to understand what I am saying... anything I can do? :confused:

The solution is very simple.

Simply don't talk to her.
Carry around a little whiteboard and try to accompany any conversations with a simple informative pictorial representation.
yes! silent treatment, very nice! while we're at it how about we build her a kennel outside and really treat her like a dumb animal, coz according to this advice, thats all she seems to be!
She would probably be the type that just stands out in the rain yapping anyway.
Reply 14
hitmanuk2k
She never seems to understand what I am saying... anything I can do? :confused:

It would help if you gave us a example of something youv'e said to her that she didnt understand
Fluent in Lies
She would probably be the type that just stands out in the rain yapping anyway.


oh very mature! Mind you, given the attitute of the people here, she'd probably have a better relationship with kennel mate.
Reply 16
When a girl told me 'I love you'

I simply replied 'I don't get it :confused: ', Is that being dumb?
Lauren Hart
oh very mature! Mind you, given the attitute of the people here, she'd probably have a better relationship with kennel mate.


Conversation would probably be more on her level I'll grant you.
Reply 18
hitmanuk2k
She never seems to understand what I am saying... anything I can do? :confused:

Use it to your advantage. Above all humour her up unto to the point where it becomes intolerable.
Smart man + smart woman = romance
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>Smart man + dumb woman = affair
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>Dumb man + smart woman = marriage
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>Dumb man + dumb woman = pregnancy