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    Hi. I had a falling out with my girlfriend the other night. Over something very small and insignificant but its created a really big and scary problem. She doesnt want to see me anymore...and I mean just meet up with me to talk or anything. She says she's depressed but I'm depressed too

    I just want to hug her and kiss her...I mean I was thinking last night as I was trying to get to sleep of something in my life that was going right, or that I could see coming into fruition and I came up empty. My girlfriend was the only thing I had going for me and I really miss her already and its only been two days, half a day since she told me she didnt want to see me. What can I do?
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    you need to give her space..
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    (Original post by sophieliz)
    you need to give her space..
    :ditto: Give her some space and then after a few days give her a call, but make sureyou tell her you left it this long as you thought she needed some space...
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    What they said
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    So I should block her/delete her off MSN too?
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    Chirps someone else.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    So I should block her/delete her off MSN too?
    No, that's just stupid.

    Don't be surprised if she signs on as busy or away though, I did exactly the same when me and my boyfriend had a big fight because I needed time to clear my head.

    Seriously, just give her space. That's probably all she wants right now.
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    She cant be that fly.
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    She is that 'fly'. If I think about being with anyone else I feel empty and if I think about her being with anyone else I feel sick. She's the only thing I want but I think its over, her friends are all against me too

    Even though I'm a nice guy, things have blown out of proportion. I'll wait for her to decide waht she wants I guess...
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    She is that 'fly'. If I think about being with anyone else I feel empty and if I think about her being with anyone else I feel sick. She's the only thing I want but I think its over, her friends are all against me too

    Even though I'm a nice guy, things have blown out of proportion. I'll wait for her to decide waht she wants I guess...
    It's not over until one of you says it is.
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    Thanks...I'll play guitar to take my mind off it I guess...
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    emo-tastic!

    poor baby, i hope it all works out for you, give her space and try to act as rationally as you can

    xxx
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Thanks...I'll play guitar to take my mind off it I guess...
    Yeah, Play some E-minor arpeggios then crank up the amp and play a few power rakes. You should feel much better.
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    Guitar is cool. Wish I could play.
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    I cheated on my gf many times whilst at college. Its expected.
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    Aw poor you You sound like a decent guy, I would say do what everyone else says, give her space. I'm sure if it was only something minor that was just blown up things will calm down in couple days.
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    (Original post by Monkey_Maiden)
    Aw poor you You sound like a decent guy, I would say do what everyone else says, give her space. I'm sure if it was only something minor that was just blown up things will calm down in couple days.
    Exactly give her time and space, if she wants you back she will come to you. But if she does not come back then just forget about her and try to move on.
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    I told her she can ring me if she wants after she decides what she wants...
 
 
 
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