i've got this friend who i've fancied for a while now: it's not just that i think they're good looking, but that i really know this person and he is someone that i could spend hours and hours chatting to. he is amazing! he's none the wiser that i like him, and i want to keep it that way. the other night we went to a club, and we had been chatting and having a laugh all night. and although i know he doesn't consider me like this, whenever we have a good time, there is a hope in my head that he may actually like me. i'm kidding myself when i think this way. later on in the night he pulled this girl. sounds extremely dramatic, but it tore me apart inside. i can't see him with other ppl, it really upsets me. do you think i should try to bare with it, let him know how i feel, or leave this friendship? i know i can't carry on going out on nights out with him as it really gets me down when i see him with others.