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She might not want poo flying everywhere?
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WHAT THE HELL?!?

GAY mean? all men have prostates, so why just generalise it to GAY men?!
My boyfriend enjoys me doing things to him anally, and trust me he is NOT gay.

i, as a girl, love anal as long as my bum hole isn't sore. (being honest, not crude)
Yes, sometimes it is painful but every single time it's been because nowhere near to enough (if any) lube was used.
As for not having any enjoyment from it, some of my most powerful orgasms have come from anal, i orgasm quicker from having anal sex than having vaginal sex.

Saying "Any girl who claims to enjoy anal has issues, probably relating to their father." is absurd! in my book it'd be just like saying "Any girl who claims to enjoy vaginal sex has issues, probably relating to their mother." so get lost, Freud.


OP, someone above has suggested maybe making it part of foreplay. Just circling the hole whilst you pleasure her in someway or other.
I agree with others, don't force her into it. I waas reaaaally against it. I didn't want to do anything to with anal sex. My boyfriend started as i have advised. and things just led on from there.
Actually what i said about your father is perfectly fact based. There is no biological reason for women to enjoy anal, and therefore the only possible pleasure one could get form it is psychological. Vaginal stimulation provides satisfaction mainly becuase of the clitoris (which is usually rubbed with one part of the body or another) and also the sensitive tissues in the vagina itself. The anal sphincter has neither.
If your claims of being able to orgasm are true it shows one of three things:
1) you have never had an orgasm so do not realise that what you feel during anal sex is not an orgasm. 2) Some psychological issue (e.g. a pathological need to please men) enables you to achieve orgasm, or 3)You are a marvel of medicine with a clitoris in your *********. Take your pick, but they are the only possibilities.
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She might not want poo flying everywhere?
It wont be everywhere.

it will be under your nose as a moustache.

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It wont be everywhere.

it will be under your nose as a moustache.

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I don't have a comeback so I'm just going to use this smiley.. :2euk48l:
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if she doesnt want to do it, then dont make her.
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I think that you should talk about it and just maybe ask her to try it for you, however if it's still a flat no then you need to drop it and decide which for you is more important, her or anal.

Personally speaking I have never tried it and will never try it, the whole thought just creeps me out and makes me feel upset. However, everyone is different and if it is that important to you then it is worth it just explaining that to her and seeing if she will give it a go. Don't ask don't get, but you've still got to appreciate the answer.
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(Original post by MrTwist)
Actually what i said about your father is perfectly fact based. There is no biological reason for women to enjoy anal, and therefore the only possible pleasure one could get form it is psychological. Vaginal stimulation provides satisfaction mainly becuase of the clitoris (which is usually rubbed with one part of the body or another) and also the sensitive tissues in the vagina itself. The anal schincter has neither.
If your claims of being able to orgasm are true it shows one of three things:
1) you have never had an orgasm so do not realise that what you feel during anal sex is not an orgasm. 2) Some psychological issue (e.g. a pathological need to please men) enables you to achieve orgasm, or 3)You are a marvel of medicine with a clitoris in your *********. Take your pick, but they are the only possibilities.
"The abundance of nerve endings in the anal region and rectum makes anal sex pleasurable for many men and women" http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anal_sex (yes, i realise how so many people dislike the referencing of Wikipedia, sorry guys!)
"The clitoris is a bundle of nerves about the size of a pea located at the top of a woman's vulva," http://surgery.about.com/od/glossary...risGlossar.htm

If the clitoris can be stimulated to cause sexual pleasure, due to the load of nerves there, then why can't the anal region create/cause the same effect? I don't care what you say about not experiencing a really orgasm or whatever, i have experienced many an amazing orgasm from vaginal, oral and anal sex. All feel the same, and all produced the same effect on the juices and feelings in my body.

"The Gräfenberg spot, or G-Spot — a small area behind the female pubic bone surrounding the urethra and accessible through the anterior wall of the vagina — is considered to have legs in relation to the clitoris. Besides their accessibility, orgasm by stimulation of the clitoris or G-Spot through anal penetration is made possible because only a thin membrane separates the vaginal cavity from the rectal cavity, allowing for indirect stimulation.Only a small percentage of women are able to orgasm from this type of stimulation alone. Direct stimulation of the clitoris, G-Spot, or both, during anal sex can help some women to enjoy the experience and reach orgasm. " - http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anal_sex


p.s the links aren't actual clickable links, you need to copy and paste.
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"The abundance of nerve endings in the anal region and rectum makes anal sex pleasurable for many men and women" [COLOR="blue"]http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anal_sex [/COLOR](yes, i realise how so many people dislike the referencing of Wikipedia, sorry guys!)
"The clitoris is a bundle of nerves about the size of a pea located at the top of a woman's vulva," [COLOR="blue"]http://surgery.about.com/od/glossary...risGlossar.htm[/COLOR]

If the clitoris can be stimulated to cause sexual pleasure, due to the load of nerves there, then why can't the anal region create/cause the same effect? I don't care what you say about not experiencing a really orgasm or whatever, i have experienced many an amazing orgasm from vaginal, oral and anal sex. All feel the same, and all produced the same effect on the juices and feelings in my body.

"The Gräfenberg spot, or G-Spot — a small area behind the female pubic bone surrounding the urethra and accessible through the anterior wall of the vagina — is considered to have legs in relation to the clitoris. Besides their accessibility, orgasm by stimulation of the clitoris or G-Spot through anal penetration is made possible because only a thin membrane separates the vaginal cavity from the rectal cavity, allowing for indirect stimulation.Only a small percentage of women are able to orgasm from this type of stimulation alone. Direct stimulation of the clitoris, G-Spot, or both, during anal sex can help some women to enjoy the experience and reach orgasm. " - [COLOR="Blue"]http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anal_sex[/COLOR]


p.s the links aren't actual clickable links, you need to copy and paste.
I'm pleased you are now trying to put forth a valid arguement, but all you actually managed to do is successfully describe the clitoris. Stimulation of the G spot can also lead to more intense orgasms, however this cannot be done by anal penertration (despite what the ever accurate wikipedia may claim). As for why the nerves in the anus are unable to provide the same sensation as those in the clitoris, it is because the nerves themselves are actually very different, so comparing the two would be like comparing the nerves in the teeth to those in the penis.
Don't think i'm critisizing you by saying your orgasms are caused by your psychological state, it makes you no less unusual than those who get off from physical pain (of which i have dated one or two). I've also known girls (well, just girl if i'm honest) who are unable to orgasm at all due to their psychology.
To ellaborate on my comparison between you and masochism, both have mild biological reasoning (e.i. certain physical pain may cause the release of endorphines) but the 'pleasure' is mainly caused by the mental state.
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Shes the one that is going to be having a stick up her anus so it is her decision. You can't convince her and to be honest, anal makes me feel sick. Why would you want to put your magic stick into the place where POOP comes out of .. ? =\
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It's her arse at the end of the day.
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Yuck yuck yuck. You watch to omuch porn yuck
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its a shame when this kinda **** happens
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this comment has so many problems just because he likes anal doesn't mean that he has homo tendencies also doesn't mean that the girl is ****ed up some people have kinks some girls honestly like the feeling of a **** up their ass
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Wow this is an old thread 😂

Yes anal sex isn't sick some guys like it and some girls like it clearly she doesn't in this post and I can't blame her I despise it personally but I hope the OP managed to work our his problems
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okay not quite 'romantic' but here goes...

I've been in and out of relationships since I was 15 (6 years) and all my past girlfriend's have been into anal

I'm not gonna lie I love it...it turns me on like nothing else. It is a hobbey and a passion to me.

I'm in my second year at uni and towards the end of my first year I met a girl. I am head over heels with this girl, I thought I knew what love was but none of my past relationships compared to this.

We are already living together and loving it, there is even talk of engagement

However, she refuses to even talk about anal sex. She despises it and says she would never do it. I feel lost without it, but I'd be lost without her.

What do I do?
Anal hurts so badly, it’s also so much easier to get a infection. If she doesn’t want to do it then don’t talk about it around her and have some respect for her
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Het her really drunk and force it ..
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okay not quite 'romantic' but here goes...

I've been in and out of relationships since I was 15 (6 years) and all my past girlfriend's have been into anal

I'm not gonna lie I love it...it turns me on like nothing else. It is a hobbey and a passion to me.

I'm in my second year at uni and towards the end of my first year I met a girl. I am head over heels with this girl, I thought I knew what love was but none of my past relationships compared to this.

We are already living together and loving it, there is even talk of engagement

However, she refuses to even talk about anal sex. She despises it and says she would never do it. I feel lost without it, but I'd be lost without her.

What do I do?
Get her drunk ..then force it
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This thread is 7 years old lmao I don't think the OP cares anymore.

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Get her drunk ..then force it
That's rape. Do not do that.
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What a pile of ******** from a neanderthalian. That's why forums like this mean nothing.
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What a pile of ******** from a neanderthalian. That's why forums like this mean nothing.
Hi Anal Bob. This thread is 9 years old...
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