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feeling rejected

ok this is gonna sound like im jealous but im really not

one of my best friends is obsessed about her boyfriend and shes being really nasty to me, the other day she had ago at me about when i was texting her. though when she was single she used to call me all the time and i only wanted to know what time we were going out that night and she could have put her phone on silent.
and I just feel like she has abandoned all her friends and then when i saw her last nite ( went to the cinema with my boyfriend and her and her boyfriend) she like "i've missed you so much, we need to catch up" and my friends are really important to me and i just wish she could see what a bitch she is being. the other day she actually said " no offence i just dont like you" and then she hugged me if she doesnt want to be my friend then fine. but i know when her boyfriend away shes gonna start callin me all the time and tbh i dont know if i want tht

im not sure if i want advice or what i just had to get this off my chest
Reply 1
:hugs: I can sympathise... some of my friends have drifted away when they got boyfriends. She might just be too caught up with her boyfriend and it could be a phase... on the other hand what she said to you ("I just don't like you") does sound mean. I think you should just tell her straight out that what she's doing to you is out of order and see how she responds.
Tell her to swing from a tree if she said "no offence, I just don't like you".
Reply 3
"no offence, I just don't like you"

WTF :hmmm: What kind of friend is she? Just ignore her. Be polite but just dont get too involved with her. If she call you fine but dont call her.
Reply 4
Just let her know you won't be there when she gets back.
Reply 5
Everybody does this.

The second they get a Gf/Bf there best friends go out the window.
Reply 6
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Everybody does this.

The second they get a Gf/Bf there best friends go out the window.

if you re-read the post you will see i have a boyfriend but im making the effort to stay in touch with my friends